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Lonely Planet Plot Summary
Lonely Planet starring Laura Dern and Liam Hemsworth is a fun romance movie set in Morrocco. After a recent breakup, famous writer Katherine (Laura Dern) appreciates the change in scenery, courtesy of the writers’ retreat she was invited to. But she is doing everything she can to work in peace and avoid others.
Owen (Liam Hemsworth) is a young businessman accompanying her novelist girlfriend Lily.
As Lily throws herself into socializing and partying with no regard for Owen, Owen finds himself more and more drawn to Katherine. As their friendship turns into something more magnetic and lasting, they decide to make the most of it.
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I did my best not to give spoilers, so I might have made Owen sound like a cheating brat. But I assure you, he’s one of the most decent male leads I’ve seen in a while. He’s obviously human and flawed. He stays in a relationship far longer than he should, but the cheating brat position is firmly Lily’s (oops! Spoiler!:D).
Rest assured, you can root for Owen and Katherine with a clear conscience.
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Now that the essential movie information is out of the way, let’s delve into some of the themes:
Writer’s Block: Getting Rid of Writer’s Block with a Change of Scenery/Environment
Katherine’s getting out of writer’s block through a scenery change (and let’s face it – finding love), is realistic. Let me digress with my own scenery-change-killed-blockage story for a bit:
When I first started writing my debut romcom novel Making A Difference (M.A.D.) (aff. link), I wasn’t sure about the format. I first tried writing a movie screenplay. Then a TV series. Finally, I decided the story was meant to be a novel. I was new to writing novels. For a while, I got stuck reading about how to write novels. Then I started writing. But words didn’t fly out of the pages until I went to a dance camp in Sweden.
I live in Istanbul. The novel is set in NYC. What about Sweden made the creative juices flow?
Istanbul resembles NYC in many ways. It’s chaotic, crowded, loud, cosmopolitan, and it never sleeps. It’s hard to adult properly. You always miss out on things…things like proper sleep, enough fun with friends, and regular exercise.
While I hate most types of exercise, I love swimming, Zumba, aerobics, and dancing. I was an intermediate-level lindy hop dancer (a form of swing dancing), and I jumped at the chance to go on a dancing retreat. You stay for a week, join workshops during the day, and dance at parties at night. Pure exhausting bliss.
Despite being in the summer, it’s around 20 degrees (68F) at most and windy. You dance in large tents, and then it’s your extremely sweaty back’s turn to face open air… Well, everyone is fighting not to catch a cold. I missed some workshops because I opted to rest in my room. And during those obligatory rests – I mean, you join 3-4 lindy hop workshops a day and dance at night for hours without resting and we’ll see what your body begs you to do – I typed and typed in a file called MAD Sweden. I should also point out both my main characters lindy hop, so there’s that.
After a pure week of dancing bliss and exhaustion, I visited my friend in Norway and then came home with a first draft that made me happy. And I survived the trip without a major cold, which is another major victory on my part.
Running away from your problems isn’t recommended for the long term, but a change in pace, lifestyle, and scenery is sometimes all you need to get out of a rut and thrive. This works not just for creative people, but anyone looking to get unstuck and find a fresh perspective.
Now that I’m a bit stuck on my first draft of the third book in the A Change Would Do You Good romcom trilogy, I found myself checking out retreats and dance camps.
Back to Katherine and Lonely Planet: Dancing is one of the biggest loves of my life. So are traveling and Norway. And reuniting with old friends? The cherry on top. All this to say, I didn’t need Owen, but I’m glad Katherine found him.
Katherine and Owen have a bit of an age difference. I don’t know how old their characters are supposed to be, but during filming Hemsworth was 34 and Dern 57. The difference is (expectedly) addressed in the movie when Katherine says “I could fall for a kid like you,” and Owen is offended. Neither of them is wrong. 20+ years is a lot, and no one wants to be thought of as a kid by their crush. But it wasn’t that she saw him as immature, but was merely pointing out the obvious.
That said, I’m all for a good age-gap romance. As long as both parties are consenting adults who know what they are doing and chasing someone much younger/older isn’t a habit due to some unsolved baggage, it’s fine. You love who you love. In fact, the novel I’ll be writing finishing the A Change Would Do You Good series is an age-gap romance. Stay tuned!
I love that Owen and Katherine’s relationship is both calm and passionate. At times, Owen is more mature and grounded, which makes him even more attractive.
Romantic walks by the beach, sincere conversations that don’t turn into fights, good sex…. No wonder Katherine started writing again.
And now to the film’s only unbelievable part – major spoiler alert!: Katherine’s bag is stolen and her work with it. Get this: She has no backup! Am I supposed to believe that a novelist with a decades-long career who suffered from writer’s block for so long forgot to back up her work? Come on. I save my work as a reflex. As I was writing this sentence, I paused and sent myself an email just in case: And it’s only a thousand words. I don’t even know how many backups I have of my novels. She panics, has a fight with Owen, and just leaves. Because leaving your muse and a happy relationship is the way to solve all your problems as we all know. I’m rolling my eyes so hard right now.
Yes, in most romances you need a fight and a temporary break-up. But if this is how she handles things, maybe she should date 20-somethings. Like, seriously.
OK, I’m calm now.
Obviously, things get resolved. We get a happy ending, including a successful novel on Katherine’s part. Romance and inspiration win.
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The Importance of Dating the Right Person
We all need someone supportive and understanding. Passion can be peaceful.
This doesn’t just help with our work, but also our health. You don’t need someone to feel happy or complete. But if you are with someone, make sure they are good for your soul.
And if you inspire each other, even better.
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If you liked this post, check out the other Writer Characters in Fiction posts here.
How do you get out of ruts? Please let me know in the comments.