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This Writer Is Getting Smarter About Money: And How You Can Too

Posted on June 5, 2015 Written by Pinar Tarhan

From my Oslo winter trip this year.

The truth is I’ve always been somewhat smart, or at least sensible, with my money.

Despite a brief fascination with Levi’s products in the 90s as I was growing up, I never really had a fascination for brands. As my friends shed their family’s money on Lacoste, Burberry and many other brands I can’t remember, I spent on movies, music and books.

Sure, I bought clothes and shoes and accessories too. Look, I love shopping. I’m just not (that) addicted. Compared to Rebecca Bloomwood, I’m a financial wizard.

I’ve always tried to save some money in case of emergencies, luxuries, trips, future moving plans, even though it’s not always easy doing that.

I’m a freelancer who’s adamant she’ll only take on projects she’s enthusiastic about. Linda Formichelli is right in a way: it’s very difficult if you only try to write about what you love. That’s why I also teach ESL. I’d rather teach English (I love the language, and I love teaching it) than write about something that bores me. I also can’t learn to love something according to the paycheck it provides. I tried.

While I don’t really spend on things I don’t need or don’t care for, there are “luxuries” I refuse to cut back on, such as:

-Nero coffee (Starbucks too, but I like Nero more, to be honest.) And by coffee, I mean mocha. And other stuff I eat and drink while I do my writing at their numerous branches.

– Screenplay coverage: I’ll argue this is more a professional necessity than a luxury, but it costs money. Add to it if you also want it proofread. Add some more for the coverage of your resubmissions, as first submissions are rarely a consider or recommend.

Add even more for other screenplays. You have to have more than one. If not, please stop reading. Bookmark this post, and come back to it after you’ve done some screenwriting. This post isn’t going anywhere. If it does, I’ll let you know.

– Cabs. I love cabs. Granted, I don’t often take them as much as Carrie Bradshaw does. But I certainly appreciate the option.

– Vacation abroad. I need one at least once a year. I can’t always afford it, and it’s not pretty when I go cold turkey.

-Vacation at 5-star hotels/holiday villages. I’ve never been the backpacking or camping type. I like the outdoors as long as it comes controlled, so I won’t have to deal with poisonous or otherwise dangerous animals. I’ve never appreciated tents. And call me crazy, but I do love indoor plumbing and hot water. And food cooked for me. And big, clean pools. You get the idea.

Luxuries I want to have:

– Traveling first class. For the leg space more than anything else, to be honest.

– Rush jobs on my script coverage. Waiting for feedback on your writing sucks. Because let’s face it, we do more waiting as writers than most other folk. We wait for editors, agents, studios, etc. to answer to our original email. We wait for the answer to our follow-up email. We wait a reasonable time to count it as a rejection, we wait for our piece to be published.

We wait.

The problem is writing is personal, even when we do it professionally. We care if people care about our ideas. We get excited if they like the finished product. And chances are, if you are writing fiction, you get even more attached to your ideas. They’re kind of like your babies, admit it. They shouldn’t be, but they usually are.

So if you can get your script coverage faster, why not do it if you can easily afford it? I haven’t really been able to up to now.

– Eating healthier all the time at restaurants that are Monica-clean. Typically, fast food is cheaper and easier to obtain. Unhealthy snacks are usually more available than healthy ones. And by healthy, I mean the natural stuff. And I hate cooking. Damn it!

– A beach house in California.

– More trips aboard, more stays at 5-star places.

– Investing more on my blogs.

– Investing more on courses.

– Going to pitch conferences in person.

-Pitching one-to-one more.

– Working with a story consultant like Marilyn Horowitz

– Work on my pitches with Stephanie Palmer

….

There’s probably more, but those are my top ones at the moment.

How Am I Getting Smarter?

How do I plan on keeping the luxuries I have, making them more frequent and reaching the others?

By making more.

I don’t believe in saving to the point that you stop living and enjoying your life. But I do believe at this point in my life, I can live without 500-dollar-a-pair shoes.

It doesn’t mean some shoes aren’t worth it. It just means it’s a luxury I don’t care for at the moment.

So you can (and should) save according to your own needs and preferences. For more guidance, I recommend I’ll Teach You To Be Rich by Ramit Sethi. I love that book. It’s fun, understandable and practical. It’s slightly more helpful if you live in the USA, but with some research, you can benefit from it no matter from where you are from.

More unbelievably helpful resources on how to make more:

–  The Freelance Writer’s Guide to Making $1000 Extra This Month by Mridu Khullar Relph

– Ramit Sethi offers a lot of free materials to help you make at least 1K more on the side. It’s also a premium course, but I haven’t tried it yet.

– How to Give Yourself an Instant Pay Rise as a Freelance Writer Online by Kirsty Stuart

– How I Got to Write a Regular Column — After My Article Was Rejected on Make a Living Writing.

*None of the links in this post are affiliate links.

This is hopefully only the beginning to a smarter, more profitable life.

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How do you handle your luxuries? What are your luxuries and money management techniques?

Filed Under: Career Management for Writers, Inspiration and Motivation, Recommended Resources Tagged With: i will teach you to be rich, kirsty stuart, make a living writing, marilyn horowitz, money management, money management for writers, mridu khullar relph, ramit sethi, stephanie palmer, writer luxuries

Best and Cheapest Gift You Can Give to a Writer (Plus Alternatives)

Posted on April 19, 2015 Written by Pinar Tarhan

 

gifts for writers
Yep, I made this comic. When you can’t draw…you can find sites to help you.:)

 

Not all writers are created equal. There’re probably some writers out there who don’t like to share their work with the world, even with their closest friends and family. And some writers are okay with strangers reading their material, but not their friends.

But most writers I know, myself included, DO WANT TO BE READ.Tweet this

That’s right: we want to be read by as many people as possible. Of course there’s a sales part of it. However I believe the bigger part is curiosity: how others will feel about the words we put together, characters and worlds we have created. We spend so much time and effort on our writing, especially our fiction.

Don’t get me wrong. I appreciate anyone who’s taken interest in reading whatever piece I created. But reading longer pieces takes more time, and it’s a bit harder to get more people to read your longer work – before it’s published and has gained a reputation.

I love it when my friends read me. My family is optional, because well, I don’t exactly write family-friendly stuff. But being read by people we love…well, that’s just a priceless feeling. (Don’t think you have to like what you read. Constructive criticism is cool, just don’t express your feelings like Internet trolls do, and we’ll be fine.)

I’m very fortunate to have great friends who love to read, and they’re enthusiastic about my work. I love it when they push me to write more stuff and send them my drafts sooner. (Sending big hugs to Nastya and Pinar.)

Then I have some dear friends who do care a lot about me, just not so much about my work. Sometimes it’s a genre issue. Frankly, if a friend is all about horror, I’m not going to be even the slightest bit of hurt, disappointed or surprised they chose to stay away. They should.

And then I have friends who don’t really like to read that much, especially when it’s novels we’re talking about. If they haven’t even tried addictive mainstream (but extremely cool and thrilling) authors like Brown, Grisham or Child, I won’t feel entitled to their reading time. If those guys don’t get a shot, I’m okay not making the list.

But some friends do read. They read and watch stuff in the genres I write. Now, they all have jobs and lives and other tons of stuff they have to do and like to do. I get that. Writing though, is not just my job or passion. It’s a part of who I am. That’s why it means so much when they want to know more.

We feel happy when people ask us about our day, careers, families, pets and love lives (well, generally), right? Please add writing to the top of that list.

So here’s the thing: the best gift you can give most writers is that you read or listen to their work.

You don’t have to spend any money. Spare the time it takes to go into a store and choose something. Instead, shoot your writing friend an e-mail and ask for something they wrote. Then tell them what you thought. That’s it. You have no idea how happy that will make them.

Now, if you’ve asked and asked and they refused to send stories your way, it’s on them. But many writers will send it once they feel the work is ready.

Also spreading the word about their writing work online and offline is also a great gesture. 

You absolutely want to spend money? Then here are some alternative suggestions (though recommended you read their work and then provide something else if you want):

– Writing equipment.

– Coverage and/or editing services. Those can be expensive, so if you’ve the budget, it will be appreciated. That said, you need to make sure of what your friend exactly needs and where they want it from. Some might have a wish list on Amazon or their blog, so that’ll be a good place to start.

– Writing-themed stuff. The funnier, the better.

– Books on writing. But make sure it’s relevant, they need it and don’t already have it.

– Writing courses

– Novels.

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What do you think? What have you “bought” your writer friends? Writers, how often do your friends/family read you? Let us know in the comments. And if you like this article, please share on.

 

 

 

Filed Under: Inspiration and Motivation, Writing Tagged With: best gift for a writer, best gift for writers, buying gifts for writers

Favorite Cartoons and Images on Writing: The Funny and The Inspiring

Posted on July 6, 2013 Written by Pinar Tarhan

How’s your Saturday going so far? Since its the weekend, I wanted to cheer you up  by sharing some of the writing-related images that made me smile or just laugh out loud. Some of them also fueled me to move my butt and get to work. I’m sure you can guess which one(s).

Enjoy! And please don’t neglect to share your thoughts and stuff you like.

P.S. You can check out my Plain Old Writing Fun: My Favorite Cartoons on Writing post for my funny writing cartoons.

 

seo writer joke
I think I first found this through the Facebook page of PAGE International Screenwriting Awards.
inspirational words on writing
Image via WOW’s Facebook page.

 OK, this also goes for re-reading your previous stories. Getting hung up on old stories keeps us from writing new ones. And while I love creating a new story (it’s a great rush!), I also find it hard to say goodbye to the ones I spent so much time with.

 

novels adapted into movies
Image via PAGE International Screenwriting Awards.

 

how to become a better writer

 

 

query letter, writing query letters
Image via boscafelife.wordpress.com.

 I used this cartoon in  my  Why I Like Querying: 7 Reasons Querying Is Good for Writers post, but it is just too fun not to fun here. Wayne E. Pollard is terrific with writing cartoons, so you might just head to his site for more.

Image via elissabassist.com.
Image via elissabassist.com.
Image via mymthos.tumblr.com
Image via mymthos.tumblr.com

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Inspiration and Motivation, Writing Tagged With: funny cartoons about writers, funny images on writing, funny writing cartoons, motivation for writers, wayne e. pollard, writing, writing inspiration

Sleepy Writer’s Wake-up Ritual: How to Start A Writing Day Well

Posted on May 4, 2013 Written by Pinar Tarhan

 

Image via pictures88.com
Image via pictures88.com

 

Whether it is the current assignment, your new post, the kids or something else calling, there comes a time when we need to pull ourselves out of the bed, wash up and get ready for a hopefully fun battle that is a writer’s day.

It’s much harder to just respond to logic (“I need so much to do, and I can’t just wait for everything to be perfect to start my day!”) after a bad night’s sleep, when you have a cold or the weather is as bleak as in a post-apocalyptic movie.

It’s even harder if your body loves and/or needs a lot of sleep. Here’s all the weaponry I arm myself with to drag myself to my writing desk and chair: (Because I can’t be happier once I start writing away.)

 

Make sure you’ve slept enough!

sleepy-writer
Image via fantasy-fiction.com.

 

I envy the lucky souls who only need 5-6 of sleep to start the day with full energy and working brain cells. I however belong to the majority that needs 7-9 hours.

Hell, I need much closer to 9. Whatever your magic number is, make sure you get your fill. Because even though you exercise and eat healthily to make up for the lack of sleep, tiredness and lack of productivity will creep up on you no matter how many cups of coffee you drown, and we both know losing count of how much caffeine you take is only good for sitcom characters.

 

    Choose a Kick-ass Alarm Song

Michael J.  Fox as Marty McFly, Back to the Future
Michael J. Fox as Marty McFly in Back to the Future, rocking the night away. Image via 8tracks.com.

 

Sometimes an early meeting, a late night out with friends or just some appreciated after-midnight inspiration doesn’t allow you to wake up all energized. You need some motivational intervention to kick your body and soul into motion

And even if you wake up all energized, extra vigor and flare never hurt anyone.  Now, I hate the typical beeping sound. So I set my alarm clock (aka my cell phone) to play a rocking tune (currently it’s Where the River Flows by Collective Soul) to let me know morning has arrived.

If you need any suggestions (these songs also are great for picking up pace for your stories, finding motivation, typing faster and boosting up your confidence before you send that pitch.):

Roxette- Dressed for Success – She’s Got the Look

Bon Jovi – Everyday

Soundgarden – Original Fire

Exercise

Ideally for 30 minutes, to equally vitalizing music. I prefer dancing, aerobics or a combination of both. Don’t forget to stretch before and after.

Even when you don’t have time, pick some good basics and do them anyway. 5-10 minutes is better than nothing.

 

Shower  

Save the foamy, relaxing bath for later. Now you just want to feel fresh and awake.

 

Have a Healthy Breakfast

That, under no circumstances and in no universe, means black coffee on empty stomach! A whole-grain toast with some healthy cheese beats a bowl of cornflakes. Add some healthy yoghurt, some freshly squeezed juice to the mix if you can and you are good to go.

Yes, your nutritionist will know better. You know your body better than me too. But we both now a candy bar is not what you need. (Yes, I love those too. Life is just not fair.)

 

Make Sure Your Desk Beckons You

It’s your working environment, so how much you organize (if at all) and how you decorate is up to you. Take 5-10 minutes to create your ideal space, but don’t use it as a reason to procrastinate.

 

Type the Words Away

You made it! Happy Writing.

 

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This is my favorite ritual, and things go a lot for better for my spirits (and writing) if I stick to it. Of course this is for a typical morning. If the weather is too hot to bear, this is the post you should check out: Productivity for Writers: Tips to Increase Your Productivity During Hot Weather

And if you have a cold, worry not. There’re still some things you can do to move things forward.
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Filed Under: Inspiration and Motivation, Productivity & Time Management Tagged With: how to start a writing day, productivity for writers, writers, writing, writing day, writing life

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