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16 Non-Writing Tasks to Do When You Have Writer’s Block (or Don’t Feel Like Writing)

Posted on July 28, 2017 Written by Pinar Tarhan

I love the idea that we – writers – are sitting on a porch somewhere with a lovely view, a delicious coffee-based beverage nearby and typing away to our heart’s desire.

Now, we can often be found typing away with a coffee in hand, but we are not always writing a story or an article. (And the view doesn’t always rock, but that’s beside the point.)

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For instance, this is me posing for a picture because we need that too. 🙂

And while we love writing, sometimes we are stuck. Sometimes we’d do anything but, no matter how much we love writing.

But just because you can’t write doesn’t mean your whole work has to go to hell:

get over writer's block

16 Non-Writing Tasks to Do When You Have Writer’s Block (or Don’t Feel Like Writing

  1. Pitch. Unfortunately, editors and clients don’t always come to you with assignments and story ideas. You have to create your jobs. So you pitch. You usually have a pitch template than can be tweaked, so this is more editing than actual writing.
  2. Follow-up on previous pitches. You have pitched stories a while back, but you haven’t heard back. So you customize that follow-up template if you need to, and fire away.
  3. Keep track. You make notes on where you pitched and what you followed up. You don’t want to send the same idea to an editor that already turned it down.
  4. Clean your inbox and answer important emails. It’s not advised to check your email every 2 minutes, but you should probably check it at least twice every day – especially if you are expecting responses and you have clients from different time zones. You don’t want to miss an assignment because the message got buried among 100 unimportant other messages.
  5. Read the articles in the publications you are pitching– aka also known as market research.
  6. Read unrelated stuff for fun and inspiration.
  7. Deal with blog administration. There is always a plugin to update, a post to edit.
  8. Apply to jobs and/or pitch to clients.
  9. Post on social media. You have a presence; you need to maintain it.
  10. Talk to other writers. It’s one of my favorite methods for staying sane.
  11. Update social media profiles. Maybe you did something interesting or acquired an impressive byline.
  12. Update your website copy. You might want to review your services and how you present them.
  13. Update your portfolio. Those new bylines won’t add themselves.
  14. Hang around aimlessly – online and offline- looking for inspiration and story ideas. Some of the most obvious ideas arrive when you feel like giving up. And ideas can come from anywhere, including from your favorite comedians.
  15. Clean. I don’t mean spring cleaning, but just a general, mindless tidying up that won’t take too much time. Also, how clean is your computer screen? I swear mine is playing in the dirt when I’m not looking.
  16. Organize. Organize files, on the computer and in your office. Do you need all the paper? Did you notice a publication you loved but forgot about? Saw a book you need to refresh up on? Leave the cleaning and organization to the end, though. You don’t want to use them as procrastination tactics.

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What do you work on when you are stuck? Please let me know in the comments.

Filed Under: Blogging, Inspiration and Motivation, Productivity & Time Management, Writing Tagged With: how to get over writer's block, productivity tips for writers, what to do when you have writer's block, writer productivity, writers block

How to Get Back to Work After Vacation (Even If You Are Exhausted)

Posted on July 19, 2017 Written by Pinar Tarhan

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Me at one of my favorite places: by the pool. July, 2017.

Hi, everyone! I’m back from a week of beach vacation at an all-inclusive resort in Kemer, Antalya, and I’m positively exhausted. Knackered. Shattered. And the rest of the thesaurus.

Unfortunately, I’m one of those people who needs another vacation to offset the effects of the previous vacation. I had a lot of fun being very active, and now my body is paying the price. So this second “vacation” is basically sleeping off the effects of the first one.

But being a freelance writer means when I don’t work, I don’t make any money, so I have to get back to work ASAP. And it was even more so this time because I had a deadline for the second day of my return.

I’m also planning mini getaways before the summer ends, as well as a couple of days abroad. And fingers crossed, a second beach vacation because I need all the Vitamin D and happiness I can get as someone with a weak immune system, and as a writer who sometimes gets so lost in her stories that she forgets things like the outside world, healthy-eating, and exercise.

But this post is coming to you right after I’ve submitted my piece a day before the deadline and feeling slightly better. So I wanted to share my tips with fellow freelancers who freak about their vacations because of the mountain of work that awaits them afterward.

11 Tips for How to Get Back to Work After Vacation (Even If You are Exhausted):

1) Sleep well and long.

Here’s the thing. I’m not rich. I can afford vacations at five-star resorts through a carefully calculated budget, and watching out for discounts.

So when something you love – aka beach holidays- happens once or twice a year, you make the most of it. This usually comes in the form of overdoing things like swimming, dancing, eating, drinking; and underdoing things like sleeping.

After a week of fun and an exhausting return trip, you need your sleep. So do it. Even if it means it is 5 pm by the time you properly wake up. Your body and mind will thank you for it.

2) Eat healthily, even if you have to commit a few “sins” until you get the energy to concoct something nutritious.

In my case, I ate chocolate before I could move my butt to heat and eat vegetables.

3) Have a nice and long shower, or bath.

You’ll feel refreshed and energized.

4) Take a painkiller with minimal side effects if you are in physical pain.

If everything hurts badly and it hasn’t waned a bit even after the sleep, bath and meal, you might need a painkiller. Of course, this is between you, your common sense and doctor. But if you pushed your body like you never do in a year, taking something might be in order. (But please don’t do anything your doctor doesn’t approve of. I’m not a doctor.)

5) Drink coffee! (Or tea, if that’s your thing.)

After I do all four, I still need my good friend and preferred medicine, coffee. (This time I also watched the two Jim Jefferies Show episodes I missed for relaxation and laughs before getting to work.)

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The following tips require you do them before your trip so that the five tips above will be more effective.

6) Stock your fridge (and freezer) with food and beverages that won’t go bad.

So that you won’t have to run to the shops when you’d rather not leave your house. Or your bed.

7) Try not to get a deadline for the first couple of days you are back.

Sometimes it is inevitable, but it is wise to give yourself a breather. In my case, I had already written and edited the essay that was due. I re-read it for flow, overlooked language mistakes, and connectivity. It wasn’t that much work as I had done the heavy lifting earlier.

8) To continue from tip 7, if you must have a deadline soon after your return, do the work before you leave.

So that when you come back, you just have to do minor edits and hit send.

9) Don’t leave your house a mess.

I find it impossible to not to leave the house at least a bit messy while packing. But this time, I managed to leave a relatively tidy place behind, as well as a desk ready to be worked at. I am now more relaxed and motivated to get to work.

10) And try to pick projects that not only pay well, but you care about and enjoy.

Whether it is your internal harsh critic or the editor you are working with, (and it is generally both), a piece can often take longer than you thought it

would. It wouldn’t do anyone any good if you resent yourself, the piece or the topic. So pick something you are passionate about whenever you can.

Writing the essay was scary and emotional, but ultimately, I love the subject. People need to read it, and I want it to be its best version.

It’s hard producing your best work if you are cursing the moment you decided to take on this work.

11) Enjoy the hell out of your vacation!

A great vacation makes you ecstatic and fills your head with awesome story ideas. So arrange for your work to be done before your vacation starts. Have a solid plan on what you will do afterward, but don’t worry about it as you relax with your favorite cocktail.

Image by me. 🙂

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Do you have any other suggestions on how to get back to work after an exhausting vacation? Please share in the comments.

 

Filed Under: Career Management for Writers, Inspiration and Motivation, Writing Tagged With: career management for writers, freelance writing, how to get back to work after vacation, productivity, taking a break from work, time management, writing

How to Follow Your Heart and Writing Dreams In Multiple Niches: Interview with Olga Mecking

Posted on June 8, 2017 Written by Pinar Tarhan

UPDATE: Olga released her book Niksen: Embracing the Dutch Art of Doing Nothing, and I interviewed her again here. We talked about niksen, her thoughts and experiences regarding self-publishing and traditional publishing, her writing process and more. 

I’m a writer, blogger, and screenwriter. As a screenwriter, I’ve mostly written romantic comedies or romantic dramas. But I’ve co-written a fantasy/action/drama TV pilot with my writer friend Liam Kavanagh, and I dream about the day I’ll wake up with the perfect sci-fi, thriller or action feature idea.

As a non-fiction writer, I’ve written about health, beauty, dating, career management, travel, mental health, entertainment, any and all aspects of writing, as well as all aspects of writing and blogging. I run 4 blogs: Pinar Tarhan Entertainment, Beauty, Fitness, and Style for the Fun-Loving Girl, Dating and Relationships in the 21st Century, and this: Addicted to Writing – my writer’s blog and portfolio website.

I couldn’t possibly pick a favorite niche. When it comes to writing services, if you pushed me to pick, I’d say blog writing. When it comes to topics, I could list what I don’t write about. It would take less time.

I’ve always been interested in multiple topics. And while picking a niche or two has certain advantages, not all writers are made for this path. Today, I have such a guest on the blog, my good friend Olga Mecking.

 

 

Olga Mecking is a successful international writer with bylines in so many prestigious pubs like Teen Vogue, Yes Magazine, Ozy, City Lab, and The Washington Post. But what makes Olga the perfect person to talk to about writing in multiple niches is that she didn’t get all those impressive bylines in sticking to a niche: She has written about being an expat, mother, traveling, current news, being a polyglot, science, and beyond.

She is Polish and lives in The Netherlands with her German husband and their kids. She speaks 5 languages including English, German, French and Dutch.

Olga Mecking.

Off to Olga:

  • How did you start writing? And how did you start writing professionally?

I started my blog The European Mama after a Dutch woman called the police on me because of my kid’s temper tantrum. By blogging, I taught myself to write, and then after a while my friends were all starting to submit their writing, so I thought, “maybe I could do this too.” Turns out, I can.

  • How do you find and pursue your story ideas?

I always have a million ideas in my head and think stories are everywhere. For example, once we ate something called The Dutch Weed Burger (it’s made of seaweed, not grass!), but I thought with a name like that there had to be a story. And there was! Sometimes, my idea comes from current events, or from stringing two lines of thought together in unexpected ways. Sometimes it’s a place I visit or something I eat. And sometimes, it’s something someone says or does.

  • Why do you prefer writing in multiple niches?

Well, there are topics I stick to, for example, parenting, living abroad, travel, food, etc. But I also like learning new things and acquiring new skills, so I am trying to break into other types of writing (for example, I wrote for Teen Vogue about politics). Also, I get bored easily. If I had to stick to just one thing, I’d stop writing.

  • Do you feel like this has ever worked against you? In what ways has it worked in favor of your career and life in general?

In many ways, it has worked in favor because I can always use my stories to “get into the next level”. So for example, next time I have something about politics, I have my Teen Vogue story to prove I can do it. If I’ve written about food in a certain way (for example, as a feature), I can use that to write features about other topics.

  • What would your advice be to writers who also can’t dream of sticking to one niche?

Just write whatever you feel like writing.

  • Where can we follow you on social media?

Facebook, Twitter and IG.

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Do you also write in multiple niches? Or do you want to? Let us know in the comments about your adventures and concerns!

Filed Under: Blogging, Career Management for Writers, Inspiration and Motivation Tagged With: blogging, choosing your writing niche, olga mecking, should writers pick a writing niche, writing, writing in several niches

Younger TV Series starring Sutton Foster: Shows with Writer Characters, Doing Crazy Stuff to Follow Your Dreams and Living Like a 20-Something…Whenever

Posted on April 6, 2017 Written by Pinar Tarhan

Younger Sutton Foster, Hillary Duff, Debi Mazar (from left)
Younger Sutton Foster, Hillary Duff, Debi Mazar (from left). Image via TVLand.

 

One of my best friends got me hooked on TVLand’s Younger, a comedy series with a lot of heart, spice, humor and an irresistible love triangle.

If you are a romantic, I recommend it. If you’re in your 20s to 50s, I recommend it. But I have to insist on watching it if you are a writer.

Here’s the plot for Younger TV series in a nutshell:

Liza Miller (Sutton Foster) is a 40-year-old, about-to-be-divorced mom with a daughter doing a semester abroad in college in India. She lives with her lesbian best friend (yes, this is an important plot point) Maggie (Debi Mazar).

Liza is eager to get back to work in publishing after a 15-year hiatus. Unfortunately, even her Dartmouth degree can’t save her from the agism and prejudice toward her resume. But when a hot younger guy named Josh (Nico Tortorella – The Following) hits on her assuming she is around his age, Maggie’s inspired to give her friend a makeover. She has the looks and the body. All she needs is a crash course in pop culture, and she is good to go.

Younger Josh (Nico Tortorella) and Liza (Sutton Foster)
Younger’s Josh (Nico Tortorella) and Liza (Sutton Foster). Image via deadline.com.

Soon enough, Liza lands a job as a marketing assistant under the tough 40-something Diana (Miriam Shor) who has a clear disdain for millennials. She is soon taken under the wing of Kelsey (Hillary Duff), a millennial junior editor and she can’t resist dating the lovely Josh.

Now she is working, working out, partying and dating like a 26-year-old. Can she keep this up? Oh, and then there is her divorced, hot 40-something boss Charles (Peter Hermann) who thinks Liza is wonderful. Can she keep it up?

Younger Charles (Peter Hermann)
Younger Charles (Peter Hermann). Image via pinterest.

Why Watch Younger?

As a 32-year-old – which makes me an older millennial – it is not that hard for me identify with the “old folk.” In fact, my social media knowledge and love for going out to dance aside, it is often easier to feel more at home with the pains and jokes of the 40-somethings. I’ve always been a fan of reading paper books, and movies and music from the 80s and 90s.

Of course some of it is exaggerated for comedy and it works. But mostly, the show is just blunt and sincere. Even its more extreme characters are people we have run into at some point in our lives. Some of it characters, we’d just love to run into. (Charles and Josh, anyone? And Maggie is literally one of the best people you could have in your corner.) Diana is hilarious with her strict bitch mode, and we root for Liza all the way. Yes, there is a ton of things she could have tried to maintain a certain form of career at home, but she was too busy raising a kid, dealing with a gambling and cheating husband. And sometimes life gets in the way.

The show is the ultimate anthem for breaking the rules that don’t make sense or just seem to serve as annoying roadblocks in your way. And that you are never too old to pursue your dreams, find yourself and find love.

And let’s face it. Love triangles are a lot more fun when you don’t mind either side winning. Although no one is perfect and some episodes in season 3 seem determined to paint Liza as the one with most flaws, I can honestly say I’m a bit more in love with Charles as a character than Josh. Yes, Peter Hermann’s Charles seems like an even more evolved version of Mr. Darcy – a tall hunk with no social interaction problems, a loving father, a romantic who loves Berlin (the band) and someone who reads…

Let’s watch on to see all of these characters’ adventures.

Writer Characters in Younger

Technically, Liza works in marketing. But she is in publishing, reads a ton, and she gets to write and edit for a couple of authors in some of the episodes. We also see a lot of authors and can learn a few things about what not to do when you are signing with a serious publishing house.

Also, nothing quite sets a fire under our writing asses to see the publishing world up close. And we can only work to be one of the most celebrated authors of a publishing house like theirs.

*There might be affialite links in the post.

 

 

 

 

 

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