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Oceans, Surfing, and Romance: A Beach Read from Yours Truly

Posted on June 7, 2021 Written by Pinar Tarhan

*This post was originally published on the 7th of June. It has been updated.

Trivia for A Change Would Do You Good and The Ocean

– Set in San Diego, two major characters (Kevin and Denise) are professional surfers. Their best friends? Three other pro surfers.

– This is a romcom drama featuring an ensemble cast, but the protagonist is clear: Janie. So is the male protagonist, aka her love interest. And you guessed, it’s pro surfer Kevin.

Want to picture what he is like? Imagine Chris Hemsworth, pre-Thor body. Also with slightly shorter hair. (Yes, Kevin is gorgeous. Aren’t most romance leads?)

– Most of the characters are connected by the near-the-beach apartment building they live in. A few characters don’t live in that building but three have beach houses. (Don’t worry, I do explain their finances.)

– There are at least two romantic/sexy scenes set on the beach.

– There’s plenty of outdoor activity. Most of my characters live life to the fullest, but my surfer characters (and especially Kevin) have a huge lust for life. They feel the most alive when they are dancing with the waves. But of course, there is also swimming, skydiving, and camping.

– Movie reference in the novel: Point Break (the original)

– Characters frequently attend and host beach parties. As they should.

 

What’s this author’s relationship to the ocean?

I am a total beach lover.

I don’t live by an ocean, but a sea. It takes me a 20 minute-walk to reach the water where I live. My favorite coffee shop has two stories, and both see the sea.

In the summer, I love having a beach vacation: the whole sand/sea/sun package. My holidays are both lazy and active: I rarely ever leave the resort, but I’m almost always going to the water. I spend more time in it than by it.

That would be my feet during one of the said vacations. Kemer, Antalya, Turkey.

The idea for A Change Would Do You Good came to me after I spent a month in California. I was 15 and I stayed at a building that served as a campus for eclectic groups: seniors who loved retirement activities, cheerleaders and footballers, language learners…It really was people of all ages and backgrounds, and I loved it.

At nights, I’d walk to the beach with my friends. Beach houses hosted parties. Anyone was welcome to come in. Different houses played different types of music, and I distinctly remember a rock band performing on a balcony.

In the mornings, I’d ride my rented bike around and to the beach. I’d ride for like 30-45 minutes before breakfast. (I’m currently digging around the apartment for my Cali photos, all taken by non-digital cameras. Sigh.)

Because I was 15 and from another country, I did have camp counselors. One of them also gave surfing lessons. I regret not taking him up on them, but I chickened out. I know how to swim, but I’m by no means great at it. I’ve never been particularly great at physical balancing acts, and sea waves are typically no match for an ocean’s.

Now in my 30s, I really want to learn surfing. Fingers crossed the pandemic leaves us soon and we can travel freely. There are some spots in Turkey where this water sport is possible. Which will be one of my upcoming travel posts on my travel blog Overstuffed Suitcase.

What’s the book about? A Change Would Do You Good Blurb:

Janie yearns for change.

Ever since her boyfriend died and their mutual best friends moved to Canada, she’s been lost and unable to enjoy life.

Nothing a nice new wardrobe, job, car, and a place in another city can’t fix. Right? The job and apartment are great, but her eccentric neighbors will be a challenge to get used to:

  • Twenty-year-old Ian is obsessed with curing his agoraphobic mom Michelle, and he lashes out by crashing into other people’s cars for fun.
  • Part-time model/fashion designer Ben could win the worst boyfriend award, and his miserable girlfriend Linda hates her career.
  • Goth metal chick Ashley loves drugs, guns, and weird parties.
  • Lackluster cops Sam and Tom want a more exciting life.

Luckily Janie has met Greg, a handsome therapist who might be the best friend a person can have. And her downstairs neighbor Kevin, a pro surfer with the looks of a Norse god, seems fun and friendly enough.

Except neither is ready for how intense their chemistry will be. Janie’s not over her boyfriend. Kevin has dated all the gorgeous women in California. Can they handle their intense feelings? Or will their wildly different romantic pasts get in the way?

With all the antics and chaos going on, only one thing seems certain: Janie’s neighbors provide more distraction and change than she was ever ready for.

A Change Would Do You Good is a romcom drama with an ensemble cast. Escape to this San Diego beach party complete with electrifying music, the whiff of salty air, and the sound of surfer-friendly waves.

 

A Change Would Do You Good First Chapter

Los Angeles

 

Janie sat in her therapist Dr. Lucia Lopez’s office for the twenty-seventh time. She had been seeing her for about seven months.

Eight months ago, her boyfriend Lenny had died. Seven months ago, to add insult to injury, her two best friends Sarah and Andy had moved to Canada. That was when Janie knew she wouldn’t survive this without professional help.

It was the right call. They had talked through her pain, as well as feelings of abandonment and betrayal. Who would move abroad when their best friend was mourning the loss of her boyfriend? He had died two days before her thirty-fifth birthday. And a few weeks after his.

But, of course, it wasn’t that simple. Sarah and Andy weren’t just Janie’s best friends. They were also Lenny’s. Not that grief was, or ever should be a competitive sport.  If it were, they would all probably be sharing the medal for first place: Sarah and Lenny had met when they were in diapers. Literally. Their parents were neighbors and dear friends. Luckily for them, their kids — both only children — had taken to each other immediately. Sarah had been inconsolable when Lenny’s father took a job in New York; they were in ninth grade. That’s when she met Janie.

Andy was Lenny’s college roommate. The two bonded over their dream to become Formula 1 drivers and realized it together.

Lenny had introduced Sarah to Andy, and after their move back to LA the four of them had been inseparable. Lenny was a close friend for years before he and Janie started dating.

Yes, the three of them were in immense pain. The difference was Sarah and Andy had each other. And Vancouver had them.

To be fair, Janie did see the appeal of making a new start in a new environment. Yes, she still felt a bit let down. But she was no longer angry with her friends. Talking things through with her therapist had helped immensely.

Lopez observed her patient as Janie studied the beautiful scenic photos of San Diego sprucing up the walls. She was particularly drawn to the blue-dominant one, where high, wild waves crashed onto the golden beach sand.

“Ever been?” Her therapist asked.

“When I was a kid. We vacationed there a lot. It was lovely.”

“Still is.”

Janie could hardly look away from the pictures. She was thinking. Planning. “I never went there with Lenny.”

“Might be just what you need to start over,” her therapist prompted.

“I turned down a job there a couple of weeks ago. Loved the firm. Loved what they offered. But I wasn’t sure I could handle such a huge change.”

“And now?” Janie leaned back and smiled. Her therapist continued. “Being the new person in an environment can provide a lot of distraction. And I definitely encourage you to go out and meet as many new people as you can. Still, never hurts to have someone you can call.” Lopez picked at the neatly stacked Rolodex on her desk. She searched a bit before she found the name she wanted. She took the card out and handed it to Janie. “Greg’s a good friend of mine from school. He’s a therapist himself, but he works for a corporation.”

Janie threw her a curious look.

“I’m sure he can recommend a few decent local therapists should you need one, but I’m really just giving you the number of a friend. He can show you around. Introduce you to people,” the therapist explained.

“Won’t he be weirded out? Me being your patient?”

“Janie, you’re just going through a tough time. And honestly, I think you will hit it off.” Janie looked horrified. The therapist laughed a little. “Relax. I’m not matchmaking. I know you’re not ready to date again. And Greg is seeing someone. But he makes a damn good friend.”

“Thank you,” Janie said gratefully.

*

Janie wasted no time calling Greg when she went home. If she were going to change cities, she might as well start making friends. He sounded even more pleasant than described.

She made her second call to Ellen Parker, the head of the San Diego fashion design firm who had offered her the job.

*

Janie was in her bedroom, hastily packing the remainder of her wardrobe into the suitcase on her bed. She wanted to be out of there like yesterday. Her older brother Peter sat next to the suitcase, disapproving, which was his default mode. Janie kept ignoring him. That was her default in their relationship. He’d never change. And on the plus side, he couldn’t stand being ignored.

Janie looked at her almost full suitcase, and then at the other fully-packed carry-on on the floor. Her closet was far from empty. Peter read her mind.

“That’s what happens when you shop non-stop for three weeks.” Peter pointed out the obvious. Janie kept packing. “You don’t have to do this, you know,” he pressed.

She went into the bathroom. The moment she was out of sight, Peter unzipped the suitcase on the bed and threw the clothes back into the wardrobe.

Janie returned with her toiletries and saw Peter unpacking. “What the hell?” She darted to her bed, pushing him aside. She dumped the toiletries on the bed and quickly recovered the items from the wardrobe, throwing them back into the suitcase until it couldn’t take any more. Then she zipped it shut with one swift, angry pull.

“Hey, take it easy. You know I have nothing against you moving on. But transforming your whole life to do it?”

“Remind me, when did the love of your life die?” She lifted her suitcase from the bed and put it on the floor. She dragged the carry-ons as she exited the room.

Peter followed her outside. As soon as he saw the new red Chevrolet Camaro parked in the driveway, his eyes almost left their sockets – cartoon style. “What was wrong with your perfectly normal car?”

Janie just placed her suitcases in the trunk and shut it. The backseat was full of photo albums, DVDs and CDs.

“Do you have any savings left at all? And why are you still traveling like it’s the 90s?”

Janie smirked at the question. Peter looked like he might have a heart attack soon. She got in the car and closed the door. She took out what looked like a brand-new phone from her bag, gestured him to call her and drove away.

Peter frowned, then instinctively fished out his phone to test his theory. He dialed Janie’s number. No longer in use.

*

Janie sped away in her convertible. Her car’s speakers blasted AC/DC’s Highway to Hell for good measure. She smiled as she mouthed the lyrics, ironically feeling like she was escaping hell.

*

Janie looked out of the window of her new fourth-story apartment. She could see the beach down the road. On quieter days, she bet she could hear the waves splashing on the shore.

The neighborhood was stunning with just enough colorful buildings. Not too crowded. The tallest ones had five or six floors at the most, giving everyone space to breathe.

The inhabitants were intent on making the most of the beach. People who lived here weren’t exactly rich, but they didn’t have money problems either. Not that Janie cared about that. It would just be nice to hit Peter with the facts when he started nagging that she’d downgraded her life somehow.

*

A couple of hours later, Janie sat on her sofa and took in her spacious two-bedroom apartment. It was modern and vibrant without being too quirky. It was completely her. She had only a few boxes left to unpack. She smiled to herself, dialed her mom on her cell and left a message.

“Hi, mom. Just calling to say I’m almost settled. This place is amazing. Remember, you can’t give this number to Peter. Or my address. Not yet.”

She hung up and dialed Greg. Got his voicemail.

“Hey! You were right. This place is something else. Thanks for everything. Let me know when you want to meet up.”

*

Past midnight, Janie was sound asleep in her bed. Suddenly, loud hardcore metal music with brutal vocals blasted from downstairs and jolted her awake.

“What the hell?” she yelled and tried to go back to sleep. She buried her head in her pillow. The music continued. Frustrated, she took her MP3 player from her top night table drawer. She put her earphones on. Before she could push play, she heard the loud crack of a gunshot. Then another.

Shaking off her initial panic, Janie dialed 911.

*******

 

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Romcom Book Launch’s Coming: A Change Would Do You Good in 15 Questions & Answers

Posted on March 12, 2021 Written by Pinar Tarhan

Happy Wednesday, fellow writing addicts! My second novel, romcom/drama A Change Would Do You good is up for pre-order! And it launches on Thursday, March 18th.

Want to read the first chapter? Go here.

Want to pre-order? Go here.

So, I created a fun FAQs post to tell you the important, entertaining, and interesting tidbits about my baby. (Yes, we are still talking about the book!)

A Change Would Do You Good in 15 Q&As:

A Change Would Do You Good. A romcom novel by Pinar Tarhan.
  • What’s the genre?

Romance/Comedy/Drama.

  • What’s the setting?

California.

First Los Angeles, then San Diego. Vancouver, Canada gets an honorable mention.

  • When’s the setting?

The present, but in a world without the pandemic.

  • Who’s the protagonist?

 Janie, a 35-year-old fashion designer desperate to change her life after the death of her boyfriend.

  • Who are other important characters?

This is an ensemble piece. Most of the characters are directly or indirectly connected to Janie, but there are several main characters with their own storylines that might not include her.

Main Characters:

Kevin: A world-champion pro surfer with the looks of a Norse God and a casual look outlook on relationships.

Denise: Kevin’s biggest rival and one of the best surfers ever.

Greg: A handsome therapist with a good heart and an unlucky romantic who is more focused on solving his friends’ problems.

Linda: A marketing professional stuck at a thankless, low-paid job and in a relationship that ran its course. She’s just too broke and unmotivated to get out. She’s Greg’s best friend.

Ben: A part-time model/part-time fashion designer who lives his life to maximize the fun. He’s also Linda’s boyfriend.

Ashley: loves drugs, metal music, and driving her neighbors crazy with wild parties and stunts.

Michelle: is an accomplished freelance writer suffering from severe agoraphobia. She hasn’t left her house in six years.

Ian: Michelle’s 20-year-old son absolutely obsessed with curing his mom.

Tom and Sam: Tom and Sam

  • Is this a series or a standalone?

It’s both.

It’s a standalone book without a cliffhanger. But I love these characters, and I’m planning to continue.

  • That’s a lot of characters. How will we keep up?

They all have distinct personalities and roles in the book. I hope I’ve done a good job, but just in case, how about using this post as a cheat sheet?

  • How did this story come about? Why this story? Why you? Why California? Just, why?

When I was 15,5, I stayed in Santa Barbara for a month. It was one of the best times of my life. I met a lot of interesting characters (though none of them made it to the book), attended a lot of parties (don’t worry, I didn’t drink – and the parties did make it to the book), and fell in love with the beauty of the place. People were also incredibly friendly and welcoming.

One day, I woke up with the idea of a woman dealing with a huge loss by making this huge change, and how she dealt with the challenge. Then came her second chance at romance, complete with a bunch of colorful new friends and neighbors.

  • How long is it?

Less than 55K words. It’s short.

  • Standalone or series?

It’s both.

This book contains no cliffhangers. There is one scene toward the end with two characters where you might wonder what will happen next – and that will be explored further in the second book. But all the main plotlines are resolved.

I love these characters. I originally created this as a TV series, so even if the second book took 5 years to write – which I’m hoping it won’t, I’ll be working on it.

However, this is a satisfactory and complete read on its own.

  • What’s with the title?

It really encompasses the theme. It’s not just Janie who will go through massive changes.

  • How was it writing so many characters?

It was so much fun!  The possibilities were endless.

  • If this was a TV series, who would play whom?

I’ve given the most thought to my male protagonist to Kevin. Because I know quite a few actors who would be perfect.

Chris Hemsworth with no beard/long hair. He’s only a few years older than Kevin.

If I was shooting it in the early 2000s, Jason Lewis! You might remember him as The Absolute Hunk from Sex and The City series.

And it’s not I said no to Charlie Hunnam.

Ben – William Levy (or someone who is a few years younger.)

Greg – Ricky Whittle.

However, I can’t wait to hear your suggestions after you’ve read the book.

  • What are some of the positive reactions this thing received?

Olga Mecking says: “A Change Would Do You Good is a real page-turner, always leaving you wanting to know more about what will happen to the characters. And it won’t leave you alone until you’re done.”

And Carrie Lowrence says “A Change Will Do You Good will whisk you away to sunny California to join a cast of characters that feel like friends. Janie is trying to get over the death of her ex-boyfriend and cope with her eclectic neighbors, especially the slightly arrogant Kevin. Can she overcome the pain of her past and find love again? If you love stories about close-knit groups of friends that will make you laugh and cry, this book will do you good.”

You can also head on to Goodreads to read some early reviews.

  • Can you give us the blurb already?

Janie desperately needs a change, and she needs it yesterday.

Ever since her boyfriend died and their mutual best friends moved to Canada, she’s been lost and unable to enjoy life.

So she gets a new wardrobe, job, car, and place. In another city.

The new job and apartment are great, but her colorful neighbors will be a challenge to get used to:

Agoraphobic Michelle and her car-crash happy son who is obsessed with curing his mom,
Part-time model/fashion designer Ben who seems to be competing for the worst boyfriend award and his miserable girlfriend Linda who hates her career,
Goth metal chick Ashley who loves drugs, guns, and weird parties,
Lackluster cops Sam and Tom who want a more exciting life.

Luckily Janie has met Greg, a handsome therapist who might be the best friend a person can have. And her downstairs neighbor Kevin, a pro surfer with the looks of a Norse god, seems fun and friendly enough.

With all the antics and chaos going on, only one thing seems certain: Her neighbors provide her with more distraction and change than she was ever ready for, including an epic romance…

*

There you go! I hope that you have fun if you choose to read this book! If you have any questions, hit me up in the comments! And if you want to pre-order, you can do so now.

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This Romance Writer’s Top 5 Romance Books & Authors

Posted on February 13, 2021 Written by Pinar Tarhan

Disclaimer: This post contains Amazon affiliate links. If you purchase through them, I’ll earn a little something at no extra cost to you.

 

Welcome to post 3 of Romance Week on Addicted to Writing!

Post 1 covered This Romance Writer’s Top 10 Romance Movies,

Post 2 covered This Romance Writer’s Top 10 Romantic (Rock) Songs.

Today I picked 5 of my favorite romantic books from 5 of my favorite romance authors. And worry, I’ve included some bonus suggestions at the end.

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

I mean of course.

The 2005 movie adaptation of Pride and Prejudice is a pretty great one, so check out my favorite romance movies post for the plot summary.

And yes, I’ve seen the movie more often than I’ve read the book.

But the fact remains that this wonderful classic came first, and it is a must-read.

Also read: Whatever Jane Austen writes.

Anything by Jane Austen guarantees a good time and offers writing lessons by the dozen.

Can You Keep a Secret? by Sophie Kinsella

This is my favorite novel by Kinsella and my favorite romcom novel after Pride and Prejudice. Hilarious, romantic, and pure gold. Cute movie, but it doesn’t do the book justice. The book was funnier and sexier.

In Can You Keep a Secret?, British Emma works in marketing and has a few embarrassing secrets. Nothing major, but she keeps some from everyone: her colleagues, parents, boyfriend…And she intends to take them to her grave.

Unfortunately, a bumpy plane ride makes her think she will die, so she confesses all of it to the handsome American sitting next to her. They survive, and what’s the worst that could happen? He is a stranger she will never see again.

Except it turns out he is her boss, and he remembers everything. And he finds it amusing to mention them cryptically here and there. To make things more complicated, Emma finds herself increasingly more attracted to him.

Could love work if he knows everything, and you know nothing?

Also read: The Secret Dreamworld of a Shopaholic and Undomestic Goddess by Sophie Kinsella.

What If? by Shari Low

What If? has an original and hilarious premise.

In 1999, before the Internet and smartphones, 30-year-old Carly Cooper decides to question if one of the men she loved and left was actually Mr. Right.

So with six great exes scattered all over the world, Carly looks for the answer by quitting her job and tracking them down.

Also read: Why not? by Shari Low

Where Have All The Boys Gone? by Jenny Colgan

Where have all the boys gone? is laugh-out-loud, funny, and it has great (and realistic) premise, very romantic. Good for wanderlust too.

Frustrated by London’s bad dates, high rates, and suffocating crowds, Katie goes to a job interview in Fairlish, Scotland. Nature is beautiful, and the men are plenty. But she hates her prospective boss Harry.

Unfortunately, her boss Olivia takes them on as a client, so she has to go anyway. Followed by her depressed best friend Louise, she has to endure the stern and inhospitable boarding house owner and the grumpy Harry.

Cute journalist Iain seems to make things a bit better, and she eventually gets used to her new life.

But why do Harry and Iain hate each other? And why is she so confused?

Also read: The Little Shop of Happy Ever After by Jenny Colgan.

Highland Fling by Katie Fforde

I’ll read anything with Katie Fforde and enjoy it, but nothing will make me as happy and entertained as Highland Fling. I read this book several times.

English virtual assistant Jenny packs up for a job in Scotland, much to the dismay of her boyfriend Henry. She has to settle in the Dalmain House, a cold, unwelcoming structure that could belong in a horror movie. She also has to deal with a failing mill, handsome and abrasive Ross who couldn’t be more different than her (or Henry), and remain sane while doing an impossible job.

This is the novel that made me want to go to Scotland. And I definitely wouldn’t mind a guy like Ross.

Also read: Any Katie Fforde book is fair game.

Want More Suggestions? Check out:

The Nanny by Melissa Nathan

Sex, Lies, and Online Dating by Rachel Gibson

Café Tropicana by Belinda Jones

Like my taste?

You might try my romcom Making A Difference (M.A.D.) It’ll be $0.99 until the 15th of February. It’s free to read for Kindle Unlimited members.

Making A Difference (M.A.D.) Plot Summary

Making A Difference (M.A.D.) is a contemporary romantic comedy set in NYC.
Everybody loves Jay. He’s that humanitarian PR guru who doesn’t live like the rich and runs a profitable company so that he’ll have more resources to help people. He defines himself through how much he and his company make a positive impact.

He’s engaged to a gorgeous CEO whose purse collection could feed the homeless in NYC, but he’s only human.

If anyone notices the irony, it’s Jay’s new partner Zoe. 10 years older than her, Jay is the reason she studied PR. So when Jay’s business partner/best friend takes a less pressuring position, she’s delighted to return to the firm she interned for.

But Jay and Zoe have a big secret: 5 years ago, they fell hard for each other. She was a student at NYU where Jay was a lecturer. To Jay, his legacy was everything, and he’d never risk his reputation by dating a student. Moreover, he’d die before he let Zoe ruin her career. She is furious he doesn’t take the risk for them. She leaves the country to get over him.

And now she’s happily coupled-up with lovely writer Colin.
Colin detests Jay, and he doesn’t even know the entire story. Zoe’s upset Colin’s turning into a whiny jerk, but he’s the first guy she has felt strongly for in a long time.

Jay can no longer dismiss his feelings as nostalgia, but Zoe’s still furious at him. And the last time he tried to fix things, she left the company and the country. And now that the stakes are even higher.

Will Jay be able to follow his heart even when improving the world seems easier?

Are you a writer looking to create an amazing romance? Check out my romance writing guides. They’re $0.99 until the 15th of February.

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This Romance Writer’s Top 10 Romantic (Rock) Songs

Posted on February 11, 2021 Written by Pinar Tarhan

Welcome to Romance Week, post 2! You can read post 1 This Romance Writer’s Top 10 Romance Movies.

I made sure I put rock in the title so you don’t get disappointed if you don’t see your pop favorites. I’m a rock music fan through and through, although some of the artists mentioned here do occasionally produce pop hits.

Links change frequently, so if the ones featured don’t work you can still find most of these songs on YouTube.

And remember, my three books are $0.99 are on Amazon until the 15th of February!

Now, let’s get romantic!

Bryan Adams, Everything I Do (I do it for you)

This 90s hit featured in the Robin Hood film starring Kevin Costner still gives me the chills.

It’s the perfect combo of beautiful and meaningful lyrics, great vocals and catchy music.

Watch/listen here.

The movie is really fun too.

And since Bryan Adams is the king of romantic songs, you might also want to try:

Please forgive me

Have you really loved a woman?

Think about you

Bon Jovi, (It’s Hard) Letting You Go

Bon Jovi is my favorite band, and I’ve seen them live twice.

I’d say they are particularly good at creating energizing and impossibly catch rock anthems as well as memorable romantic songs.

Listen to (It’s Hard) Letting You Go here. The vocals especially get me every single time.

I’m not putting Always on the list for two reasons:

– You already know about it.

– The song’s video ruined it for me.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s a gorgeous video with a wonderful cast. It stars Carla Gugino, Keri Russell and Jason Wiles. (90s kids will remember him as Colin from Beverly Hills 90210).

But while the song talks about a mistake without specifying it, the video shows it as the guy cheating on his girlfriend (Gugino) with her roommate (Russell). And then he goes on to get jealous about the cute painter (Wiles) she spent the night with after catching him in the act.

Like, what the hell, dude?

And after that, she leaves him for good. Not exactly my type of romantic fantasy.

So Always is out.

I’m instead featuring a beautiful song from the These Days album.

Also check out:

In these arms

Born to be my baby

Wild is the wind

I want you

Def Leppard, Have you ever needed someone so bad?

When I first created the story of my upcoming second novel A Change Would Do You Good, it was a screenplay. And I included a soundtrack. I wrote this song would play here if this was shot as a series, and even lent the track to my readers.

After I release the book, I should make a note to come to this post and reveal where I had put it and for which character.

This song is slow, and the lyrics just make you want to be in love. And if you are in love, you will know what Def Leppard frontman Joe Elliot is singing about.

Have you ever needed someone so bad? video

Warrant, Blind Faith

I also mentioned this song in the novel. It plays in the last scene. Wouldn’t that be amazing to have blind faith in someone?

Also, to channel Chandler Bing, could I love acoustic guitar any more?

Blind Faith

The Corrs, What Can I Do?

Did someone say addictive pop-rock with some Irish themes?

Once I had this huge crush on a guy. I had no idea how he felt, and I would keep singing this song.

I still love the song.

I got the guy, by the way. It didn’t work out in the long run, but it was fun to have the crush reciprocated.

What can I do?

Whitesnake, Is This Love?

Yes, you’re seeing a theme here. I love my electric guitar, and I love my big-hair glam metal bands.

But surely regardless of how you feel about the genre, you can appreciate this gem.

And damn, David Coverdale’s voice takes me places. I saw Whitesnake live twice, and I’d love to see them again. And again.

Because my feelings for the band…well…it is love. 🙂

Is This Love?

Alice Cooper, Hell’s Living Without You

Alice Cooper’s Thrash is one of my favorite rock albums. This is how a rocker should do romance: passionate, meaningful lyrics that give you the chills with the music.

And damn, I love the name of the song!

Hell’s Living Without You

Bruce Springsteen, Secret Garden

I’ve loved this song ever since I heard it on the soundtrack of Jerry Maguire. I definitely recommend the movie as well.

Secret Garden

Goo Goo Dolls, Iris

After I heard Iris, I became a Goo Goo Dolls fan. I still am one. I’m going to link to two videos: the official video and the concert footage in the rain. Goosebumps is the word.

If you need a romantic movie to go with it, Iris is in the soundtrack of City of Angels starring Nicholas Cage and Meg Ryan. Good movie, but be prepared for a bad ending.

Iris – original video

Iris  – concert

Poison, Be The One

Poison’s biggest hit is probably Every Rose Has Its Thorn, and I love it. As an acoustic number.

I used to love it as a romantic song too until I read the story behind it.

The girl isn’t the rose, and her flaw isn’t the thorn. Singer Bret Michaels’ girlfriend left him for another musician with a better car and career. But then Poison got way bigger. So the rose is Michael’s career and the thorn is the ex.

I love a good “my ex was bad” song, but not as a romantic favorite.

If you love your rock ballads, try Let Me Be The One.

Bonus:

Mr.Big, Ain’t Seen Love Like That

Patrick Swayze, She’s like the wind

Europe, Cry for You

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