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Should You Get a Day Job Until You Make a Full-Time Living from Your Writing?

Posted on August 30, 2018 Written by Pinar Tarhan

Every once in a while, I will catch a TV series or a movie where I’ll envy the full-time jobs and careers of the characters: The offices, perks, comradery, co-workers, the regular salary, insurance, potential for office romance no matter how tricky… And I’ll be a bit sad remembering that it is probably not going to happen for me, and that is my choice.

Then I’ll also read a semi-joking tweet or sometimes even an entire essay on the harsh realities of the gig economy and will feel like crying.

Because no matter how you look at it, making a living with your writing is hard work. Making a decent, regular, and stable income with your writing is much harder.

If you are just starting out, you might be thinking “You get to work in your PJs and vacation whenever the hell you want. How are you even complaining about the hard work?”

I’m not complaining about that. Working hard is not the problem.

We love writing. Otherwise, no one in their right mind would choose to become a writer. But just because we love writing, it doesn’t mean we love writing about anything and everything. It doesn’t mean we will be good at the other parts of the job such as editing, pitching, and marketing.

Being a freelance writer often comes with a challenge: Either you take on jobs writing about subjects you don’t care about so that you will have the occasional freedom to write about the things you do love, or you write about the things you do love and have the occasional freedom to buy the things you need and want.

So we find ways to diversify our income. We take full-time, part-time or freelance jobs that might or might not be writing-related. We write books, launch blogs, create courses, learn affiliate marketing, coach, consult, and study whenever we can to improve ourselves further.

While I love the freedom of being my own boss, I struggle with all the “jobs” I have to perform to keep my dream career going. I write, edit, pitch, market, read, research, answer calls and emails, and find story ideas.

Finding story ideas often means I have to socialize, which can be hard to find the time for with so many balls I’m juggling. And I shall not spend too much money on my social life because I have to save for my future – namely retirement and a damn good insurance because life is unpredictable.

And because we are busy writing and doing all the time, we risk burning out –which makes vacations crucial to our survival. Which brings us back to money.

Not to mention, when you get sick, the whole company shuts down. Because YOU ARE THE COMPANY.

So should you get a day job while you start earning a good income from your writing? It depends.

It depends on your goals, needs, responsibilities, and health.

  • Are you an extrovert who thrives more when she regularly comes into contact with people?
  • Do you need a stable paycheck for certain expenses?
  • Are you responsible for looking after people other than yourself?
  • Are you more comfortable and creative with a safety net?

Then you might consider supporting yourself with non-freelance work.

Now, there are many freelance writers who earn a lot of money from their work every month. To get there, you need to be more strategic when it comes to identifying your prospective clients and niches. You need to pitch regularly and according to a plan. You need to market yourself where your prospective clients are.

Yes, it can be done.

But if you are more into working for yourself, calling the shots and writing about things that excite you, things get a bit more complicated. It can still be done. It will, however, likely cause more frustration and anxiety in the process.

I’m sorry to say there is no one-size-fits-all sort of answer to this complex situation. You know you better than anyone. It is up to you to weigh the pros and cons.

As for me, a part-time job at an office where the culture appeals to my personality sounds like an amazing idea. Unfortunately, I haven’t yet seen such an office in real life. Yet.

Let’s discuss how you make a living writing in the comments.

 

 

Filed Under: Career Management for Writers Tagged With: freelance writing, freelancing, make a living writing, make money writing, writers, writing life

5 Amazing Books on Becoming a Successful Freelance Writer

Posted on December 28, 2017 Written by Pinar Tarhan

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Are you a fan of resolutions? I know I am. I figured the best way to realize our goals is to start them now, as opposed to next week or the beginning of the new year. We are also better off when we accept that there will always be obstacles, cheat days and even weeks. Sometimes, it will seem like the world is conspiring against you. Hell, maybe it is. The universe works in mysterious ways, and I don’t really care about the hows and whys anymore. Okay, maybe I do a little, but it is best if we don’t get hung up.

OK, back to your resolutions. So what if you already had Nutella and other chocolate today? (Yes, I’m talking about me.) Don’t order a mocha at the café. Opt for filter coffee or another healthier option that you like. Take the stairs. Walk 5000 more steps. Turn up the volume and dance away to your favorite song. You can have a cheat day and do your exercise. If you can’t or won’t abstain, you can always work to offset the effects in a way that fits your lifestyle.

You forgot to eat salad at lunch? Make some salad for dinner. Salad doesn’t fill you up? Add protein to it. There are quick fixes to a lot of our problems. Let’s fix the small things, so that if the big things do come, we are a bit more prepared.

If you wrote 2000 fewer words than you are supposed to, go to a productive space and write away. If that production company ignored your email about one script, follow up politely. If your follow-up is not answered or is rejected, send another script. We can do this, people! Yes, it is frustrating hard work with a lot of elements outside our control or influence. So we can at least kick ass at the stuff that is within our abilities.

 

We can really make 2018 our year.

A resolutions post will come before the year ends, but this post is about my favorite e-books. A follow-up post will arrive that features best blogs and my favorite e-courses.

This post comes with the help of my own library, meaning I own every one of these books. Enjoy!

*Please note that this post contains affiliate links. You won’t pay extra, but everything you buy through my links help keep me update this blog more often and with better, more comprehensive content. I don’t recommend anything I haven’t bought and/or used and loved myself.

Start Your Career as a Freelance Writer by Moira Allen

Moira Allen is one of my favorite writers. She is the creator of The Writing World. As far as I know she is no longer updating, but that website will take years to get through. It is just chock full of great content on all aspects of writing. But if you are looking to start a freelance writing career and like me, prefer a book you can come back to as often as you like, then I recommend her Start Your Career as a Freelance Writer. Truth: I bought it after I’d been freelancing a couple of years. You can skip or skim through more familiar chapters such as equipment, but chapters like setting goals, coping with rejection, starting your article, finding the right markets, queries and submissions, expanding your freelancing business, rights and contracts, and more, are evergreen and chapters you will want to refer to again and again.

 

The Unconventional Guide to Freelance Writing by Amber Adrian

The Unconventional Guide to Freelance Writing is a part of the Unconventional Guides series by popular blogger and bestselling author Chris Guillebeau. It comes in two different packages: Pen-for-hire ($39) and editor-in-chief ($58). I own editor-in-chief.

Pen-for-hire includes The Ultimate Freelancers Guide, which is a 55-page guide written by experienced freelance writer Amber Adrian. It covers starting, getting clients, getting paid and what to charge, creating a routine and dealing with freelancing-related fears, building a business and more. These 55 pages are complemented with The Big List or Links and Resources, “Rejection Be Damned” Tools for Success. You can check here for more details.

If you go for the editor-in-chief package, in addition to pen-for-hire’s contents, you get Sample Pitches and Letters of Introduction, Eight Big Bonus Author Interviews, and an additional 44-minute audio interview with veteran travel writer Kristin Luna. 

 

The Essential Guide to Freelance Writing: Write, Work, and Thrive on Your Own Terms by Zachary Petit

I get into a bit of detail The Essential Guide to Freelancewriting by Zachary Petit in my post Do You Need to Buy Another Writing Resource? The Impulsive Information Product Shopper’s Checklist. Zachary Petit is a former editor of Writer’s Digest and a veteran freelance writer. He is funny, honest, practical and experienced. The book covers basics, ideas, author platforms, getting published, pitching, interviewing (so detailed and valuable: I learned a ton in this chapter!), actually writing, people behind the scenes, and business basics.

The book is paved with awesome quotes about writing, the below being my favorite.  

“The road to hell is paved with works-in-progress.” Philip Roth

 

The Ultimate Freelancer’s Guidebook: Learn How to Land the Best Jobs, Build Your Brand, and Be Your Own Boss, by Yuwanda Black 

Yuwanda Black is a veteran writer who runs the blog Inkwell Editorial. I first heard about the book (and about her) through her guest post on Productive Writers by John Soares. I loved the website. I checked out the contents of the book and decided my library needed this. Her comprehensive guidebook features chapters on mindset, what to sell and what to charge, writing your business plan, start-up costs, building a brand on a budget, marketing, landing first clients, structuring your workday, working with clients, getting ongoing clients, whether to incorporate, common pitfalls to avoid, medical insurance, doing your math, and success stories. 

 

Make a Real Living as a Freelance Writer by Jenna Glatzer

Jenna Glatzer is an award-winning and prolific writer and ghostwriter. She has a testimonial from Celine Dion on her author page. Let that sink in for a second. She has written for Writer’s Digest, Woman’s World, Prevention and more.

Now that we got her credentials out of the way, let’s dive into the content of the book. Chapters are about getting started, finding ideas, finding markets, studying markets, breaking in and personal essays, pitching, style, querying, reprints and spin-offs, submitting/copyrights and keeping track, getting paid/negotiating and submitting the article, interviews, becoming a favorite freelancer, relationships with editors, networking/diversifying clips and more, delving deeper, the life of a writer for hire, examples of successful queries, and useful jargon.

 

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That’s a lot of books. Now let’s do a useful Q & A to help you shop smartly.

  • Do I need all of these books?

Of course not. But not all books and guides are created equal, and you’d be surprised to know how, in addition to wisdom shared by all or most writers mentioned here, the books create different and equally awesome nuggets. They don’t contradict each other, but rather complement. Do you need to buy even one of them? It depends! Can you spare the fee? And do you find yourself stuck at some point in your career and unable to move forward or improve? Then yes, start with one. Pick the one that appeals to you most. And before going on a buying spree, please, oh please, implement the advice in the first one you bought.

  • How do I pick?

If they all sound good to you and money isn’t a problem, you can just flip a coin. Or close your eyes and pick randomly. They are all equally good. They were all created by successful veteran writers. But if you pay attention to content, they differ from each other, so pick according to your needs. Remember, you can ask Kindle to send a free chapter if you want to get a taste of their writing style and how the book is.

  • If they are all awesome, why do you need them all?

Because they are all awesome. Because I’m a shopaholic. Because I need motivation and inspiration. Because I can afford them. Because I study successful information products as I am working to create my own. (That’s right, stay tuned!). And as I mentioned above, they are complementary.

It is more like… I wanted all. I love having a comprehensive library. And I do learn new things or remember things I forget to implement.

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Any more questions? Ask away in the comments. Please mention if you own any of these products and how you feel about them.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

 

Filed Under: Career Management for Writers, Recommended Resources, Writing Tagged With: amber Adrian, besr resources on freelance writing, freelance writing, how to make money freelance writing, how to start a freelance writing career, jenna glatzer, make money freelance writing, moira allen, zachary petit

How to Get Back to Work After Vacation (Even If You Are Exhausted)

Posted on July 19, 2017 Written by Pinar Tarhan

Pinar Tarhan, writer
Me at one of my favorite places: by the pool. July, 2017.

Hi, everyone! I’m back from a week of beach vacation at an all-inclusive resort in Kemer, Antalya, and I’m positively exhausted. Knackered. Shattered. And the rest of the thesaurus.

Unfortunately, I’m one of those people who needs another vacation to offset the effects of the previous vacation. I had a lot of fun being very active, and now my body is paying the price. So this second “vacation” is basically sleeping off the effects of the first one.

But being a freelance writer means when I don’t work, I don’t make any money, so I have to get back to work ASAP. And it was even more so this time because I had a deadline for the second day of my return.

I’m also planning mini getaways before the summer ends, as well as a couple of days abroad. And fingers crossed, a second beach vacation because I need all the Vitamin D and happiness I can get as someone with a weak immune system, and as a writer who sometimes gets so lost in her stories that she forgets things like the outside world, healthy-eating, and exercise.

But this post is coming to you right after I’ve submitted my piece a day before the deadline and feeling slightly better. So I wanted to share my tips with fellow freelancers who freak about their vacations because of the mountain of work that awaits them afterward.

11 Tips for How to Get Back to Work After Vacation (Even If You are Exhausted):

1) Sleep well and long.

Here’s the thing. I’m not rich. I can afford vacations at five-star resorts through a carefully calculated budget, and watching out for discounts.

So when something you love – aka beach holidays- happens once or twice a year, you make the most of it. This usually comes in the form of overdoing things like swimming, dancing, eating, drinking; and underdoing things like sleeping.

After a week of fun and an exhausting return trip, you need your sleep. So do it. Even if it means it is 5 pm by the time you properly wake up. Your body and mind will thank you for it.

2) Eat healthily, even if you have to commit a few “sins” until you get the energy to concoct something nutritious.

In my case, I ate chocolate before I could move my butt to heat and eat vegetables.

3) Have a nice and long shower, or bath.

You’ll feel refreshed and energized.

4) Take a painkiller with minimal side effects if you are in physical pain.

If everything hurts badly and it hasn’t waned a bit even after the sleep, bath and meal, you might need a painkiller. Of course, this is between you, your common sense and doctor. But if you pushed your body like you never do in a year, taking something might be in order. (But please don’t do anything your doctor doesn’t approve of. I’m not a doctor.)

5) Drink coffee! (Or tea, if that’s your thing.)

After I do all four, I still need my good friend and preferred medicine, coffee. (This time I also watched the two Jim Jefferies Show episodes I missed for relaxation and laughs before getting to work.)

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The following tips require you do them before your trip so that the five tips above will be more effective.

6) Stock your fridge (and freezer) with food and beverages that won’t go bad.

So that you won’t have to run to the shops when you’d rather not leave your house. Or your bed.

7) Try not to get a deadline for the first couple of days you are back.

Sometimes it is inevitable, but it is wise to give yourself a breather. In my case, I had already written and edited the essay that was due. I re-read it for flow, overlooked language mistakes, and connectivity. It wasn’t that much work as I had done the heavy lifting earlier.

8) To continue from tip 7, if you must have a deadline soon after your return, do the work before you leave.

So that when you come back, you just have to do minor edits and hit send.

9) Don’t leave your house a mess.

I find it impossible to not to leave the house at least a bit messy while packing. But this time, I managed to leave a relatively tidy place behind, as well as a desk ready to be worked at. I am now more relaxed and motivated to get to work.

10) And try to pick projects that not only pay well, but you care about and enjoy.

Whether it is your internal harsh critic or the editor you are working with, (and it is generally both), a piece can often take longer than you thought it

would. It wouldn’t do anyone any good if you resent yourself, the piece or the topic. So pick something you are passionate about whenever you can.

Writing the essay was scary and emotional, but ultimately, I love the subject. People need to read it, and I want it to be its best version.

It’s hard producing your best work if you are cursing the moment you decided to take on this work.

11) Enjoy the hell out of your vacation!

A great vacation makes you ecstatic and fills your head with awesome story ideas. So arrange for your work to be done before your vacation starts. Have a solid plan on what you will do afterward, but don’t worry about it as you relax with your favorite cocktail.

Image by me. 🙂

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Do you have any other suggestions on how to get back to work after an exhausting vacation? Please share in the comments.

 

Filed Under: Career Management for Writers, Inspiration and Motivation, Writing Tagged With: career management for writers, freelance writing, how to get back to work after vacation, productivity, taking a break from work, time management, writing

Do You Need to Buy Another Writing Resource? The Impulsive Information Product Shopper’s Checklist

Posted on September 26, 2016 Written by Pinar Tarhan

Shop Shop Till You Drop. Or you know, run out of money.
Shop Shop Till You Drop. Or you know, run out of money.

Hi, I’m Pinar, and I’m a shopaholic. (Yes, I love and adore the book series (aff.link) by Sophie Kinsella up until there is a baby involved.)

I love shopping so much that I once lost 16 pounds in one summer with shopping (and walking during that shopping) as my only fitness activity.

OK, it is not THAT bad. I can exercise control, and the only debt I go to is during writing contest submission time with one credit card that has a ridiculously low limit. So, not a lot.

But I do love shopping. Clothes, accessories, shoes, make-up, stationery, books, e-books, e-courses…. Ah, yes. Information products.

At this point, I have bought stuff about writing more times than Donald Trump has insulted Hillary Clinton. Or glam metal bands have destroyed the Ozone layer with hair products. Yes, that much.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not an impulsive buyer when it comes to information products on writing. I check out the creator, the content, reviews, and compare with my needs and weaknesses. Then I look at the price and my budget. And then, if it looks like I do in fact need this product, I add it to my shopping cart.

And I find myself checking out products quite often.

Because every time I hit a difficult period, whether I get a few rejections in a row, get writer’s block or hit another frequent roadblock, I love to refresh my knowledge and see what other successful writers have put out there.

But you have to be careful, especially if you are at a stage in your career where you already know a lot, and your main problem isn’t not knowing, but not implementing. Or hitting some career milestone block.

The truth is, sometimes you don’t need to buy anything new, but a visit to your good old library will do.

So to buy or not to buy?

Relax. Some information products are really up-to-date, refreshing and more ass-kicking, and worth every penny. So let’s do a little checklist before we open up our wallets and purses:

  • Is the information new, correct and applicable?
  • Do you get free updates?
  • Does it come in different packages, taking different levels of needs in consideration?
  • Are there payment plans available?
  • Is it in a format you know you will take advantage of?
  • Can you afford it?
  • *How soon can you reap the investment?

*It’s not just about testimonials. You can actually check out referrer’s body of work, website, products, etc. and see for yourself how much they have accomplished, or if you have liked what you have accomplished. Obviously, not everything can or should be attributed to one resource, but you’ll at least have an idea.

  • Is it evergreen? Will the information likely hold up a couple of months from now? And will you always have access to it and its updates?
  • Is the writer/creator open to questions and communication?

You don’t have to say yes to all of these, but if you can’t say yes to more than five, take a breath. Leave that wallet alone. Open the search function of your computer and delve into your library. Make a note of the sources you purchased before, and take a look at their content. See what you are missing. Then walk around and look at your physical library.

Still don’t see what you need? Go through your bookmarks a bit.

You might find this time-consuming, but it is actually one of my favorite methods to come up with new ideas for articles. You also need to organize your files, books and bookmarks anyway, so there’s that advantage.

See? You’ve come up with ideas, done some organizing and have made an informed decision on whether to spend your hard-earned money.

I will try to review each book individually when I get the time, but until then:

My Latest Purchases:

The Essential Guide to Freelance Writing (How To Write, Work and Thrive On Your Own Terms) by Zachary Petit


I was in a shopping mood, browsing through Amazon. I was drawn in by the title and who the author was, but it was the humor of the first couple of pages that drew me in.

In the first chapter, he wrote he “was perplexed by freelancing.” “I had stringers writing for me when I was a weekly newspaper editor, but they were working for beans, and they’d been writing for the paper longer than I’d been there…. I accepted their magical presence but never took the time to find out how they got there.”

I was hooked. The honesty, flow, humor and the fact that he mentioned acid reflux (I have a stomach condition that few people understand so…) I realized this was my kind of writer. Sure, a lot more well-known and successful (he had edited for Writer’s Digest, for crying out loud!) than me, but someone whose style didn’t seem far from my own.

Oh, and the “your own terms” also attracted me. What can I say? I’m a sucker for doing things my way.

I was like “I want to find more about this guy’s journey!”

It has a great deal more about interviews, finding celebrities, pitching, and yes, I learned a lot. Even after six years of freelancing. I wish I had the book in the beginning. So it is one of my go-to books now. We are happy together.

You can buy The Essential Guide to Freelance Writing Freelance Writing (How To Write, Work and Thrive On Your Own Terms) on Amazon. (affiliate link.)

Gina Horkey’s 30 Days or Less to Freelance Writing Success Course

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Because Gina is kind of a big deal in the freelance writing/blogging world. I had heard a lot about her and read some of her guest posts. So I checked out her blog and loved that as well.

After loving all of her content, I wanted to check her writing course as well. Now, you might ask, why the hell are you still checking out writing courses after six years?

Okay for one, you always need to stay up-to-date, and you need to keep adding new skills. Also, I’m not a full-time freelancer, as I’ll go into more detail in my review of the course. (I also write screenplays and actually try to sell them, so that also takes a lot of time. And money.)

Now, don’t be fooled that the picture says “newbie freelancers.” If you are a newbie freelancer, you might indeed have to take the time to take the actions course suggests. But when you are established or semi-established, you can jumpstart your pitching process and writing in record time, while still learning new stuff and adding to the old.

I have the growth package, which has a couple of additional bonuses than the starter package, and it lacks the pitch review and a month of coaching from Gina, that the rockstar package has.

I wanted to learn from her because her writing and personality are lovely, and she is a financial success. An active, private and supportive FB group sounded awesome. (I’m very active on the FB group, both with my own questions and comments trying to help out fellow writers in any way I can.)

I’ll go over the details in my review, but if you want to check this course out, go ahead. You won’t regret it if you pay attention and do the work. Yes, it is a proud affiliate link.

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What resources on writing have you bought recently?

 

 

 

 

 

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