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My Girlfriend’s Boyfriend’s Writer Ethan: Finding Love, Inspiration & Getting Published

Posted on January 28, 2012 Written by Pinar Tarhan

My Girlfriend's Boyfriend starring Alyssa Milano, Michael Landes & Christopher Gorham
My Girlfriend's Boyfriend starring Alyssa Milano, Michael Landes, Christopher Gorham. Writer Ethan is on the left. Image via amazon.

My Girlfriend’s Boyfriend Writing Character: Ethan played byChristopher Gorham

Ethan is a writer who can’t get published. His last novel is turned down because it is not realistic enough where it matter (and it is also not appealing enough to women’s fantasies of Mr. Right. ) Baffled and ready to give up, he goes to a café. There he meets the beautiful Jesse (Alyssa Milano). They like each other, and she says that she is all the inspiration he needs. They start dating, Ethan keeps writing.

Unbeknownst to Ethan, however, Jesse is also dating Troy (Michael Landes) – a guy who seems to be Mr. Right personified:  He is a successful advertising executive with his own company whereas Ethan is living rent free in his flat as long as he performs his super duties.

Jesse feels bad, as she starts falling for both and both men start falling for her. She will have to choose pretty soon….

The Novel, and The Movie Twist

(This part of the post features spoilers for the movie.  You can read the unspoiled review for the movie on my entertainment blog.)

The movie has us believe that Jesse is a two-timing girl who doesn’t quite deserve wither of these too-good-to-be men. But as it turns out, Jesse is not two-timing. Troy doesn’t exist.

Troy is the male protagonist Ethan creates to please his publisher, who just happens to be the improved version of Ethan. And while we often see Jesse conflicted, it is never openly said that she needs to choose between two guys. As it turns out, while she has been keeping a secret from Ethan only to ensure his happiness, it is not about another man.

So Ethan doesn’t give up fighting for Jesse in the end. He also doesn’t give up writing his novel- which finally gets him a publishing deal. We learn about “Troy” the moment Ethan provides us with the manuscript called Troy Meets Girl.

A Romantic Movie with a Creative Ending, and a Fictional Writer We Can Be Inspired By

While I was rooting for Ethan the entire time (both for his book and girl), I could also totally see what the publisher was talking about. We don’t want to finish a romantic novel or a movie and say “That would never happen”.  We want to say “That might happen, and I hope it happens to me”. And that is what the movie does.

Can we believe a decent guy being a writer, barely making ends meet but yet reluctant to make ends meet? Absolutely. Can we buy Christopher Gorham as a cute, albeit not gorgeous, movie lead? Definitely. And we can definitely see that his character is realistic. As sweet as he is, he is still a guy who loves Star Wars, hates musicals and can’t really see why the girls can’t get sick of Mr. Darcy.

So while it is not the best movie out there, it is inspiring, uplifting and motivating- whether you want to find The One, or make your writing dreams come true. Give it a shot- both to the movie and your writing. OK, especially to your writing.

If you liked this post, you might want to read posts from my Fictional Writers: Writer Characters in Movies, TV Series and Books category.

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