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7 Things to Never Say to or Ask a Writer

Posted on July 13, 2019 Written by Pinar Tarhan

This writer was probably asked/told one of these things before this picture was taken. 🙂

While this post targets the non-writers in our lives, I thought it’d be a fun read, and one you can just save and show whenever weird or unwelcome questions about writing bother you. 🙂

And if you have anything to add, please do so in the comments!

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There is a rare breed of writers who have thick skin. They never get offended, annoyed, or upset. The unluckier but more common group, however, just learn to deal with these emotions. We develop ways to remain professional and calm while dealing with the turmoil inside.

Then we probably create a fictional character inspired by you and make sure that character gets what’s coming to them. Hey, it is fiction. Anything is allowed.

Look, we get it. We are in a weird profession. Many of the curious folk who utter these words mean well. They either want to find out more or don’t want us to suffer any more than we already do. But they inadvertently get under our skin.

Because despite all the love, passion, fun, entertainment, and satisfaction writing fills us with, we manage a lot of unpredictability, instability, rejection, fear, creative blocks and anger (and then some!) on a daily basis. So we don’t need any more negativity from other sources, especially if those sources are family and friends.

It is an easy list. Go ahead, internalize it. The writers in your life will love you more for it.

  • Get a real/another job.

Fun fact: we actually like money.

We don’t need to be rolling in it to feel happy or complete, but we recognize it as a necessary tool to survive and thrive in the world. We don’t need yachts, extra homes, or opulence (I’m not saying we object to those things. I’m just pointing out that we don’t need them), but we do need health insurance, food, shelter, some savings, and a bit more dough for the little social things that make life a bit more enjoyable: like the occasional meal out, seeing our favorite actors on the big screen, or going on a short vacation.

So if our writing isn’t bringing us enough money for the time period, we will get a job. Math might not be our favorite subject in the world, but we get the equation involving expenses and money earned.

Exceptions, of course, do exist. If we trust your judgment and ideas, we might ask you to brainstorm with us on ways we can get a better job or make more money. Then, please, share your ideas away. We asked for it.

  • Aren’t you wasting your education/training/intelligence/skills/previous job experience?

What we studied in school, whatever jobs we held don’t matter in the slightest if that is not the area we want to work in.

It doesn’t matter that we busted our asses getting into college to study law/medicine/engineering/business/advertising/whatever. If we wanted to work in these areas, we would. (Some of us are, but hey, you wouldn’t be asking them this question.)

We spend 1/3 of our lives at work. Imagine that. Why would you want or expect us to do anything other than we love?

Maybe we studied something for years before we realized it wasn’t for us. It’d be depressing to see that as wasted time. Instead, we learned a lot about something and moved on.

Did you know that Dave Evans, the co-author of the New York Times best-selling book Designing Your Life: Build the Perfect Career, Step by Step (aff. link)  who is a designer and a design professor, first intended to be a marine biologist? As a fan of the book, I for one am glad he carved a different path. (And he carved it because he discovered he didn’t enjoy being a biologist.)

Maybe we are writing about the areas we studied in. We are creating characters who work in those industries or penning non-fiction pieces we managed to get from editors – you guessed it – by mentioning our education and any work experience.

When I’m not writing, I can be found teaching English to adults. When I teach Business English, unlike a lot of teachers, I don’t have to spend hours familiarizing myself with the jargon or finding interesting industry examples to help them learn better. Why? Because I did study business and advertising in college. I didn’t get a job in advertising because I don’t enjoy it. I do. That’s why I studied it. I just don’t love it enough to dedicate 1/3 of my life to it.

  • So is John Grisham/Stephen King/J.K. Rowling on your speed dial?

This might be just about me.

Sorry to disappoint you, but I don’t know any famous writers. Although I know a plethora of authors, none of them are household names yet. But fingers crossed, one day they will be. They deserve it.

  • Can you make money writing/Do you make money?

Yes, you can make money writing.

Did you know I once got $400 for expressing my opinion? While there is a lot more to writing an op-ed than  just telling people what I think, it doesn’t change the fact that there is money in a writing career.

When you can sell many copies of your books, you also make money. If you option or sell your script, you make money.

But do people regularly ask you your salary? Why are you so concerned with ours?

  • How do you make money?

OK, actually this question is allowed if we have entered an interesting conversation about the nuts and bolts of how a writing career works. You are also allowed to ask it if you are a budding writer who wants to learn or another experienced writer who wants to compare notes.

You are not allowed to ask it, however, in a condescending, shocked, or worried tone.

Yes, we make money. But we would also keep writing if we weren’t. That doesn’t give anyone the right not to pay us what we deserve. It just means that we feel compelled to share our written words with the outside world.

When I was in high school, I created a romantic comedy TV-series. I wrote it in screenplay format, printed out, and handed interested friends the episodes in order. We talked about their favorite events and characters, what they hoped would happen, what worked well and what didn’t.

I learned a lot, but I also had so much fun. I didn’t make a dime, but I got read. It was glorious.

Because I am a writer. I write.

  • How will you retire?

We won’t! I mean we save money for emergencies and contingencies, but we won’t quit if we can help it. That is the whole point. For us, it is not just a job or career. It is a calling. It is a part of us. We are always filled with stories.

  • What do you write?

How much time have you got?

Technically, there is nothing wrong with it if you ask a writer who only writes in one genre or niche, but most writers won’t a short answer.

Unless you are an agent, manager, editor, or a producer, you won’t get an “elevator” version.

My short answer is: Screenplays, novels, and non-fiction.

Longer answer: I write romantic comedies and dramas. With non-fiction, I generally cover lifestyle topics in essays, blog posts, articles, or op-eds. It is a shorter list if I go over what I don’t write about than what I do.

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Don’t get us wrong. We like it when people are interested in us and in our work. We don’t mind questions that every profession begets. We are just tired of people who treat us like weird creatures living life in a fantasy bubble that don’t know how the world works.

We know exactly how the world works. That’s why so many of us became writers. To change it, enhance it, to make it better.

So the question is, will you behave, or will you become the villain in our next story?

Filed Under: Writing Tagged With: what not to say to a writer, writer life, writers, writing, writing life

Interview with Author Shanah Bell on Her Book The Art of Being a PITA

Posted on June 17, 2019 Written by Pinar Tarhan

I love talking to other writers about their publishing experiences and the writing life in general. I enjoy it even more if those writers are my friends and we have a lot in common.

I first met Shanah through Holly Johnson’s Earn More Writing Facebook group, which is reserved for the students of the course (aff.link).

I’ve recently read her book The Art of Being a PITA, (aff.link) in which she details adventures from her extremely varied career. She has diverse talents and interests, and she refuses to stay in one job all her life. While there’s nothing wrong with staying with a job or company all your career (as long as it is making you happy), it’s a lot easier to relate to her resume for me. As a writer, I refuse to stick to a niche. To keep my elevator pitch short, I say I specialize in lifestyle if we are talking non-fiction, but in reality, it is just faster if I tell you things I don’t write about.

And while my educational and professional experiences haven’t been as diverse as Shanah’s, it still baffles a lot of people.

I studied Advertising and Business in college, and I held internships in advertising and PR companies. I interned for the sales and marketing division of Coca Cola. I worked for an education consultancy company. I did a very short stint volunteering at a bar during my college year abroad in Norway. I teach ESL and hold CELTA (Cambridge Certificate in teaching English to Adults). I’ve worked as a freelance translator, and I still do translation work. And I’m a freelance writer, blogger, novelist, and screenwriter. There are many more professional areas I want to explore. Niches and genres I want to write in.

So I thoroughly enjoyed PITA. I think it is crucial that we talk about diverse working experiences and colorful resumes so that employers – no matter what kind of work they are offering – stop seeing us as an anomaly. We might not have the 5-10 years of experience they are looking for, but we are adaptable, eager to learn, and easy to work with.

Enough about me. I’ll give you a short bio so that you know where Shanah is coming from and then dive into the interview.

And if you work in various niches or have a diverse resume, please share your experiences in the comments. I’d love to hear from you.

About the Author

Shanah Bell grew up in an entrepreneurial family, which drives her to think outside the box. As someone who hasn’t stopped moving since her feet first hit the ground, she’s not about to stop now. She is constantly on the hunt to learn new things and figure out how to attribute this new knowledge into her daily life.

She has a Master’s of Nutrition degree, which she uses to help peo­ple learn how to heal themselves through dietary adaptation. She and her spouse have five children in a blended family, which can get a little bit crazy at times. But they love it and do everything they can to teach their children how to think outside the box, as well.

Her goal in life is not only to live her best life but to help everyone around her live theirs, also.

Can you tell us a bit about your writing background?

I started writing as a child and have continued to hone my skills into adulthood. When I was younger, I spent more time writing poems and plays. But as I got older, I began to spend more time writing research papers and articles that helped people find solutions to specific issues. I became a freelance writer in 2016, as well as began writing on my own blog, Adaptive Nourishment. I have been working on two different books for multiple years now, and was thrilled to see “The Art of Being a PITA” finally come to fruition.

When did you decide to write this book? How did the idea and title come about?

I decided to write this book almost 10 years ago. The book was actually a larger project, but as time went on, I realized that it made more sense to split it up into two different books. The idea came about because people have been asking me for as long as I can remember how I do what I do when it comes to my career. I felt that it made more sense to write it all down, along with what I learned from each position, because that would be the most digestible way to get the information across. The title is actually not the original title of the book. The original title was “TADA – The Art of Diversifying & Adapting.” But after some market research, that title was deemed not relatable, so I worked on changing it. PITA is something I have been called by my mother, since I was young, and by many other people I have run across. So it just naturally made sense to me to add that into the title, since the book is about non-traditional living.

What’s The Art of Being a PITA about in your own words?

PITA is ultimately multifaceted. This book talks about:

  • living a non-traditional life
  • working multiple different jobs at one time
  • multitasking effectively
  • learning new skill sets
  • learning more about you and what you really like in the workspace
  • becoming a more valued employee in any genre
  • creating financial stability when working non-traditional jobs
  • figuring out what your “WHY” is in life and how that translates to your career
  • creating work/life balance
  • living the highest and best life for you, which may not look like anybody else’s.

Can you take us through the publishing journey of PITA?

I originally met my publisher (Wisdom House Books) through LinkedIn in January of 2018. We met in person in February to discuss the book and the progress I was making. I finally got the initial copy completed in August of 2018 and submitted it to my publisher the same day. I began speaking with my editor in September 2018, where we started the editing process. My publisher was working on the jacket design at the same time. We got the jacket design completed in January 2019, as well as the final editing. The book was released on Amazon on March 1, 2019.

Did you enjoy working with them?

I did for the editing and publishing process, but I HATED them for the PR process.

They charged me through the nose and did basically nothing. So I fired them.

But getting the book published was a great process. I wish they would have just left me alone at that because then I wouldn’t have the sour taste in my mouth about them

How much did they charge you?

It was about $6000.

I talked to a few other FinCon people who have worked in publishing, and they said that the pricing wasn’t actually that bad compared to traditional publishers since they take a large portion of the book proceeds instead of a lump sum. The PR was so much worse and they did freaking nothing!

Your adventures and experiences in the book make it very clear you rock at organizing and time management. Can you give us tips, for both when it comes to writing and life in general?

Being organized has been an integral part of how I have become so effective at multitasking and time management. I have found that if my environment, and calendar, are organized and up to date, then I am so much more efficient. When I am discussing a meeting with someone, as soon as it has been confirmed, I put it on my calendar. I do not STOP, or pass GO (Monopoly reference) until I put the event on my calendar. Because if I don’t do it right then, it may not make it on there, and then the meeting doesn’t exist in my world. This has been extremely helpful. Plus, I am a huge believer in having an organized space to work in, as well as my house being in order. When everything is organized, I know exactly where to find what I need, so I don’t waste valuable time looking for things, or feeling chaotic. Creating balance in your space is an important tool for creating balance in your work life. When it comes to writing, I know who my clients are for the month and how many articles I need to write. So I dedicate certain mornings to getting my writing knocked out.

Since I am a morning person, this is the optimal time, for me, to work on things that require higher level thought processes. Finding the most optimal time of day for you to work is an important thing to know about yourself and take advantage of when doing anything work related. So if you are a night owl, you should be doing most of your higher level work at night, instead of in the morning, like me. But no matter what, make sure that you dedicate a specific time frame on certain regular days to get your work done, because it will create a more ingrained schedule, which leads to more effectiveness and efficiency.

Do you have any tips for people who are like you – people who love defining their own terms and working in different areas?

Figure out what your “WHY” is first and foremost. What is it that drives you to do what you do, or what you want to do? Once you know this, it will be easier to pick and choose jobs based on what makes you ultimately happy. And make sure to create organization in your life so that you can be more efficient and effective at what you choose to do. If you are both of those, whoever you work for will deem you more valuable. This can translate into higher pay, sometimes, or just more flexibility. And if you are like me when it comes to defining your own terms, you are probably doing it because flexibility, and living your life on your own terms, are more important to you than the pay is.

What are your publishing plans for the future?

Right now I have 3 more books planned in the PITA series, so I am hoping to have the next one released in a year.

What are some of your favorite books? Favorite authors?

  • The Celestine Prophecy Series by James Redfield has been one of my favorite series since it came out in the 1990s
  • Robin Cook, who writes medical mysteries
  • Patricia Cornwell, who writes forensic science mysteries
  • Sue Grafton, who writes detective mysteries based out of Santa Barbara, CA, which is where I am originally from
  • Who Moved My Cheese by Spencer Johnson
  • The Plant Paradox by Stephen Gundry
  • The Longevity Code by Kris Verburgh
  • Financial Freedom by Grand Sabatier
  • The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas J Stanley

Where can we follow you on social media?

  • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shanahbellauthor/
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adaptivenourishment/
  • Twitter: https://twitter.com/ShanahBellAuthr
  • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanah-bell-0359b3146/
  • Quora: https://www.quora.com/profile/Shanah-Bell
  • GoodReads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/18921036.Shanah_Bell
  • BookBaby: https://store.bookbaby.com/bookshop/book/index.aspx?bookURL=The-Art-of-Being-a-Pita
  • Website: https://www.adaptivenourishment.com/the-art-of-being-a-pita/

 

Filed Under: Author Interviews Tagged With: author interviews, having diverse resumes, shanah bell, the art of being a pita, writing, writing in various niches

10 Blogging Mistakes Even Pros Are Making (And How to Avoid Them)

Posted on May 30, 2019 Written by Pinar Tarhan

Unrealistic aspect of the photo: The desk is NEVER this tidy. 😀

Blogging is fun! Our blogs serve as portfolios, provide entertainment, therapy, make money, and keep us on your toes by motivating us to develop new skills and improve our current ones.

But let’s be honest, blogging is a lot of work. Deciding on your name, hosting, and design is only the beginning.

In addition to crafting regular and awesome content that helps your audience, draws eyeballs, and gets the attention of your potential clients, you have to maintain that blog. Maintenance includes (but isn’t limited to) making sure your plugins are up-to-date, and there aren’t many broken links in your posts (luckily, there is a plugin for that too!), creating an email subscriber magnet (like a free ebook, course, etc.), and sending well-written and beautifully for formatted newsletters to those subscribers.

With so much to do on a regular basis, it is easy to overlook things, no matter how long you have been blogging for.

And please note that I’m aware I make some mistakes as well, like not updating my blog enough or sending my newsletters too far apart.

So here’s a checklist we can all take advantage of.

  1. Not making sure the link opens in a new tab.

I lost count of how many times I’ve run across this. You are reading a blog post. There’s a link. You know it’s worth checking out because this blogger always links to relevant content, either her own or outside resources. But the moment you click, the link doesn’t open in a new tab; it replaces the current page.

It is easy for your readers to remember to hit the back button when you link to another post or article on your own website. But when you direct them to another site, you risk losing them even more. Remember, you want your readers to stay on your site as long as possible. The more they stay, the more they discover.

As a blogger myself, I “know” to hit the back button and resume whatever I was reading before, but I still find it a bit annoying. Don’t make your readers work for it. They are time-crunched as it is.

If you are using WordPress, just click the insert link button. Then you need to click the “edit” link because it doesn’t automatically do it itself.

After you add you link, you click “open link in a new tab,” and you are done.

  1. Badly-formatted newsletters

At this point, everyone knows about the importance of email subscribers and email newsletters. There are many resources on how to gain more subscribers and which autoresponder to choose. (I use Convertkit (aff.link.) for this blog.)

However, not enough bloggers pay attention to how they format their newsletters.

I’ve seen it all: tiny fonts, next-to-zero white space, too many emojis in the subject line… Then there’s the trend of long-as-hell newsletters that read like novels. (PS This is not about my short attention span. I read books all the time. Lengthy newsletters? Not so much.)

Yes, I want to hear about your new post and what’s going on in your life. That’s why you have my email. I don’t give it to just anyone. But give my inbox and the million things on my to-do list a chance. Please.

Regardless of how successful, interesting, helpful, or entertaining you are, and no matter how much value you are providing in your newsletters, it’s better to direct us to your website instead of posting your entire articles in the body of your email. If you are going to send your whole article, also provide a link so subscribers can choose where they will read it.

It is okay and expected to switch it up. You can occasionally send longer ones when you have more to share. But if it is always long, exceptions aside, your message will get lost. Attention will be diverted. I save some long newsletter issues from bloggers I really love. Then life gets in the way, and I forget about it. They are deleted when I go into Inbox Zero mood.

If you need to send longer ones, make sure you format really well. Photos are appreciated.

  1. Too-frequent newsletters

Understated representation of our inboxes.

Even if you are John Grisham, I don’t want to hear from you every day. This is saying something as he is my all-time favorite author.

And I definitely don’t want to hear from you multiple times a day.

Sure, there are exceptions.

Maybe you are hosting a webinar, and you want to remind people it’s about to start. This is okay because I subscribed to your webinar. Or maybe, you are offering a huge discount, and it’s the last day.

But apart from that, don’t bother people too much. You are not the only person whose newsletter they subscribed to. There isn’t enough time in the day. If you feel you serve your audience best by sending daily newsletters, give them a choice between daily and weekly.

Of course, the opposite – not sending the newsletter frequently enough- is also a mistake, and it’s one I need to stop making. However, I’ve never unsubscribed from a newsletter because the blogger wasn’t flooding my inbox.

  1. Too-frequent newsletters that sell all the time

We all need to make money. And we work hard on creating great products and services. Even if we don’t sell our own products, we benefit both ourselves and our audiences when we promote the products and services we love and use ourselves.

That said, I don’t want to hear about the same product 50 times in the same week, which happens especially if there is a special discount on a popular product.

People in the same niche promote similar products. It’s only natural. But it also means bloggers in the same niche – aka your readers- are probably following all of these people promoting that one product. That means 10 emails, maybe more, selling the same thing, in the course of one week, if not one day!

So use caution when you decide on the frequency of your email, as well as its contents. Otherwise, the unsubscribe button becomes way too tempting.

  1. Having broken links on your blog or in your newsletter

URLs change. Sites move or go offline. Links that worked a short time ago may not work right now. There are several free WordPress plugins you can use to check all the links at once and fast. Just search for “link checker” in the search box in the plugins section.

Maybe you linked to the wrong thing in your email.

This isn’t the end of the world. You can always send a follow-up email with a quick and cute apology and the right link. But you don’t want to make it a habit, and it’s easily preventable. Just send the draft to yourself first and check if the links work. You can also look at how things look and change formatting if it doesn’t read well.

  1. Not updating their websites frequently

Forgive me, readers, for I have sinned. My previous post was over two weeks ago. The one before that was in February.

I was going through project overwhelm, writing anxiety, existential crises, and health problems. Yes, all of them at the same time.

But apart from reasons out of our control, it’s a disservice to ignore our sites for too long. Your audience will seek guidance elsewhere, and they might forget about you. Posting consistently also helps keep your writing game strong.

  1. Not getting back to their readers about their questions

Not all questions or comments warrant a reply. Stuff you already answered on your website in easily found spots, obvious trolling, job requests that you didn’t advertise for, and mass emails that don’t include a sliver of personalization can and should go answered.

But when your readers fill in your contact form or emails you directly about something you told them they could ask about, you cannot afford to make them wait.

By all means, answer your client and editor emails faster. Send that invoice that is due in a week. Read the lab results your doctor sent you.

However, urgencies aside, you shouldn’t ignore your readers. They are why you have a blog. (And yes, this happens. A lot.)

It doesn’t hurt to occasionally check your spam folder either since unknown addresses can easily fall there.

  1. Not recommending the obvious

 Audiences don’t appreciate being aggressively sold to, but if you are a blogger whose readers also blog, I recommend you have a resources page and tells us the basics. Which hosting company did you choose? Why did you go with that autoresponder? Who designed your website? If you designed it yourself, what is your theme? Which courses and other information products did you buy and got the most use of?

Maybe you can do this by creating a simple “Tools I Recommend” or “Favorite Resources” page. If you use affiliate links for the services you prefer, you will make money in addition to having helped your audience. Isn’t that awesome?

  1. Not giving their clients/readers/fans alternative formats and payment methods for their products

This is a big pet peeve of mine, and I covered it in more detail on this Medium piece: Little Things That Cost Entrepreneurs Money: What Planning Ignores About Selling Products.

Let’s say you created a product. You should consider offering it in multiple formats and with different payment methods.

I understand that the product is valuable and contains your experience and wisdom. However, it’s likely your audience just bought a similar product. And now they can’t afford yours. Not because they aren’t investing in themselves, but because they already did.

You know it best when it comes to pricing. Don’t sell yourself short. And make it easy for yourself to get paid. But don’t ignore your audience’s needs. It’s not that hard to offer a transcript in addition to a video course or offering three credit card installments.

  1. Not placing a search button on your site

I was guilty of this until recently. It is not that I didn’t want to put a search button, my WordPress theme had some quirks I had to figure out.

While some bloggers aren’t a fan of the search function (though I forget their reasoning), I believe it is a wasted opportunity. Why should your audience go through extra effort through Google to see if you have exactly what they are looking for?

Let’s say you want to see if I covered crowdfunding for writers on Addicted to Writing. (I haven’t, though I’m currently working on a story for another pub). Just type the word crowdfunding, and see what comes up.

Similarly, it makes your job easier as a content creator. If you don’t remember how many posts you wrote on the subject, you can use the search option without logging into your admin page.

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What are some professional blogger oversights did you notice? What mistakes do you catch yourself doing?

 

Filed Under: Blogging Tagged With: blogging, blogging mistakes, blogging tips, email newsletter tips, problogging, wordpress tips

Review for The One by John Marrs: A Highly Gripping Romantic Drama Thriller Novel

Posted on May 12, 2019 Written by Pinar Tarhan

the one by john marrs

I picked up this great thriller from the bookstore after only reading the jacket copy:

“ A quick DNA test to find your perfect partner – the one you’re genetically made for.

 A decade after scientists discover everyone has a gene they share with just one other person, millions have taken the test, desperate to find true love.

Now, five more people meet their Match. But even soul mates have secrets. And some secrets are more shocking – and deadlier – than others. “

It is interesting enough on its own. But if you need more information on who these five characters are – which is crucial to my review – read on my plot summary. While I give details on who they are and what they do, I won’t tell you what happens after they meet their match, or reveal any other twists and turns. And trust me, there are boatloads of them. And they are all fascinating. Here we go:

Plot Summary: The One by John Marrs (No Major Spoilers)

Thanks to a recently discovered gene, people know can get their DNA tested, and start the ultimate romance with people who share the same gene. There is only one other person in the whole world, so if you have a match, your romantic happiness is guaranteed.

More and more people are getting tested, and people who don’t get tested or who don’t have yet matches are looked down upon. The novel centers on five people with matches:

Mandy is bored at her marketing job. She has been through a divorce and miscarriages. At 37, she can’t wait to meet her match Richard, a handsome fitness trainer 12 years her junior.

Christopher is a psychopath and a serial killer who aims to kill 30 people without ever getting caught. But his self-imposed challenge gets in jeopardy when he meets his Match, a no-nonsense cop.

Jade feels stuck in her life. The only thing that gets her through is her conversations with Kevin, her Australian farmer Match. Even though they have never Skyped or Face-timed, she knows they will be so happy together. But nothing can prepare her for the shock when she travels to Down Under to visit him.

Nick couldn’t care less about finding his Match. Already in love with his fiancée, he knows he doesn’t need science to find true love. But when her fiancée Sally insists, he takes the test. To his disbelief, his match is a man named Alex.

Ellie is a workaholic CEO who has hired protection due to some questionable work practices she has engaged in before getting to where she is. But even she gets to relax when she meets her down-to-earth Match Tim. Time will only tell who has the worse secrets.

Review

I’m a sucker for a good ensemble, and all these five characters present a very complicated and fun road ahead. The one thing I’ll tell you is that their roads never intertwine. Their stories are their own. And that came as a pleasant surprise.

Why did I call the book a romantic drama thriller when its cover clearly hints at some bloody and thrilling times? Because apart from Christopher, who provides the thriller elements all on his own apart from some exceptions I won’t spoil for you, the book is a romantic drama.

Nick has to deal with the fact that he has never even liked a guy before, but Alex makes him feel things no one ever has. Jade’s Australia adventure reveals some gigantic secrets, but there is no blood involved. Mandy will go through things she never imagined, but no one in her path is a psycho killer. And this gives the book a different edge.

All characters are wonderfully flawed, with the exception of our baddie Christopher, who is well, all flaw.  Again, with the exception of our killer, they are likeable. They make mistakes, they try to do right thing while also following their hearts.

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I can’t recommend The One (aff.link) enough, and I can’t wait to read more from Marrs.

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