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The One I Love Movie Review: Mixing Sci-fi with Drama and Romance for Writers

Posted on August 31, 2016 Written by Pinar Tarhan

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The One I Love movie poster. Image via richonfilm.com.

The One I Love Movie Plot:

Ethan (Mark Duplass) and Sophie (Elizabeth Moss) try to mend their marriage after Ethan’s cheated, but therapy doesn’t seem to be working. So their therapist (Ted Danson) sends them on a weekend retreat from where other “hopeless” couples like them have returned more in love.

The retreat seems lovely: The pretty house comes with a swimming pool and a guesthouse. But after a short while, Ethan and Sophie seem to experience things together that one of them doesn’t remember having. Which is strange, because we saw them have those experiences. Except the experiences they are not remembering are being lived with an alternate, better version:

Whenever one of them goes to the guesthouse alone, their loved one’s alternate version awaits. The alternate Ethan is cuter, more sensitive, more romantic, funnier. The alternate Sophie is more relaxed, understanding and willing to let bygones be bygones.

While the real, curious Ethan tries to figure out the how and why, Sophie just wants to enjoy the improved Ethan and starts falling for him.

Can Ethan win his wife back from himself and solve the puzzle?

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The One I Love is a brave and interesting blend of genres with some decent questions for any writer and anyone in a complicated relationship. I’ve recently watched more and more romantic sci-fi films, and the blend improves and enriches storytelling opportunities for both genres.

When you are watching a romantic drama or a romantic comedy, you’ll eventually run out of original (yet realistic) reasons of keeping your couple apart. In-laws, personality clashes, societal differences, unfaithfulness,

financial distress, loss of a child, caring for an elderly parent, drifting apart….

And while The One I Love uses drifting apart and cheating for the couple’s initial problems, the movie becomes much more intriguing as the sci-fi part is introduced. What or who are these alternate versions? How does the therapist know about this place? What happens if one partner falls for the “better” version?

As you try to find out, part of you roots for Ethan and feels sorry for him. And part of you roots for the other Ethan, and feels glad as Ethan gets a taste of what he did as Sophie unknowingly slept with the other Ethan. But since the actual world can have only one Ethan and Sophie, which ones will get out?

I thoroughly enjoyed the film. Admittedly, there are parts in the beginning that feel repetitive and frustrating, but I believe that’s intentional. That’s exactly how Sophie and Ethan are feeling: stuck. They love each other, but the distance and disappointment seem more than they can handle.

And when the alternates are introduced, you try with the original Ethan to figure it out.

This is a well-done, mysterious romantic drama that deserves a watch. It’s also a great example of a low-budget, limited location story that relies on a handful of actors.

Written by Justin Lader and directed by Charlie McDowell.

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What other terrific romantic/dramatic sci-fi movies can I recommend? Be sure to watch:

  • The Adjustment Bureau starring Matt Damon and Emily Blunt
  • Another Earth starring Brit Marling and William Mapother

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Have you seen The One I Love? What are your favorite romantic sci-fi films?

Filed Under: Fiction Writing Tagged With: elizabeth moss, justin laser, mark duplass, sci-fi romance, the one I love movie, the one I love movie review, writing fiction

Bad Traits for Characters 2: From Mildly Annoying to Deal-Breaker, From This Makes for a Fine Villain to Let’s Put This Person to Jail Forever

Posted on August 9, 2016 Written by Pinar Tarhan

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This is a sequel to the post where I listed bad personality traits and flaws for your characters in any genre. The idea is to make our protagonists and supporting characters more human, especially if we are writing romances or romantic comedies.

That said, any traits can be combined, taken to the extreme and can be used for any genre and character, including your villains and antagonists. And remember, one person’s bad trait is a good one for another. That’s how we get conflicts, baby!

Let’s roll:

  • trigger-happy cop/agent
  • trigger-happy civilian
  • too flirty: the compulsive flirt who can’t stop even if they are in a committed relationship. It’s a reflex that annoys the hell out of their partner. Some of them will even act on it.
  • creepy/stalkerish
  • with inferiority complex
  • with superiority complex: These characters have inferiority complex, but mask it with narcisism.
  • indecisive about everything
  • petty
  • no common sense
  • entitled
  • constant victim mentality: loves (wrongly) blaming everybody and everything else
  • doesn’t know own limits
  • doesn’t respect others’ limits
  • kissass/ teacher’s pet/boss’ pet
  • stuck-up
  • square
  • not open to new experiences
  • too outdoorsy to the point you can’t plan an indoors event
  • dances all night vs. never, ever dances even on your birthday
  • criticizes anything and everything
  • criticizes you constantly
  • too pessimistic
  • too optimistic
  • too realistic
  • lives in fantasy world , never leaves vs. doesn’t have a fantasy world: no imagination
  • parental issues that prove Freud right
  • possessive/controlling
  • lazy
  • unstable/inconsistent/too unpredictable
  • too predictable
  • cranky
  • too snarky
  • too proud vs. no pride
  • bad drunk/always high/compulsive gambler/chain smoker
  • inarticulate
  • unhelpful
  • emotionally stunted/immature
  • relentless gossip – never says these to the person’s face
  • back-stabber/disloyal
  • only loyalty themselves
  • annoyingly blunt
  • no volume control/rowdy
  • impersonal
  • distant
  • cliché-ridden/tacky
  • paranoid/conspiracy-theorist
  • always anxious without an anxiety disorder
  • sponge/mirror: always resembles whoever they are with: mimics their personality
  • commitmentphobe vs. addicted to relationships/can’t be alone
  • doesn’t respect/give personal space
  • too flaky
  • horrible at grammar/always uses textese
  • glued to TV/smartphone/ipad/computer
  • obnoxious
  • hates traveling
  • ghoster: Instead of breaking up/rejecting properly leaves
  • can’t hold a job because of severe unprofessionalism
  • gaslighter

Filed Under: Fiction Writing, Inspiration and Motivation Tagged With: bad personality traits for fictional characters, personality trait ideas for fiction writers, writing fiction, writing realistic fiction

Bad Traits for Characters: From Mildly Annoying to Deal-Breaker, From This Makes for a Fine Villain to Let’s Put This Person to Jail Forever

Posted on July 25, 2016 Written by Pinar Tarhan

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After my romcom’s characters were criticized for being too nice by two different readers, I decided to make one big list of human flaws and bad traits. Some of them can be used to make your characters more human, and some might make them seem even less than.

It’s in no particular order, and I encourage you to add more in the comments, should you think of new ones. Remember, this list isn’t just for romcoms.

The traits are in no particular order: Some words might include others, like sociopaths don’t often have empathy, but being bad at empathy doesn’t necessarily make you a sociopath. And one person’s deal-breaker isn’t necessarily another’s.

Let’s roll:

  • mean/cruel/violent/abusive
  • psychopath
  • sociopath
  • compulsive liar/gambler
  • addict
  • stingy
  • overspender
  • arrogant
  • pushover
  • too shy
  • rude
  • elitist
  • not good at empathy
  • abuses privilege/unaware of privilege/looks down on those with privilege
  • racist
  • misogynistic
  • agist
  • homophobic
  • irrational
  • impulsive
  • too much of a planner: no time for spontaneity
  • politically incorrect
  • disrespectful
  • selfish
  • too selfless: ends up being miserable
  • forgetful
  • chronically late
  • obsessively organized/clean
  • excessively disorganized/messy/dirty
  • personal hygiene issues
  • prioritizing badly/wrongly: e.g. sports team/favorite show over relationship/friends
  • cheater
  • too ambitious vs. not ambitious enough
  • no goals
  • too self-conscious vs. totally unaware of self
  • obsessive in general
  • unsupportive
  • doesn’t believe in you
  • health nut
  • too unhealthy when it comes to habits/lifestyle
  • doesn’t believe in science
  • overtly religious
  • doesn’t respect your/others’ faith
  • xenophobe
  • insensitive vs. too sensitive
  • snob in their taste
  • doesn’t listen/bad at communication
  • doesn’t know what she/he wants
  • doesn’t give you space
  • ignorant
  • illiterate by choice
  • too serious: no time for fun/no sense of humor
  • sick sense of humor
  • always joking around/no time to be honest
  • fussy/nitpicky
  • too choosy
  • criminal – white collar
  • criminal – violent
  • doesn’t care about law
  • extreme chatterbox vs. too quiet
  • shrill voice
  • too adventurous vs. not adventurous enough
  • boring
  • too geeky vs. no knowledge of any kind of pop culture
  • doesn’t care about how they look
  • care too much about how they look
  • baby-fever: to the point who the baby will be from doesn’t matter
  • marriage-obsessed: to the point the person doesn’t matter
  • hung-up on ideas/ideals rather than evaluating the individual
  • not individualistic enough/always following the crowd
  • antisocial
  • bad with/rude to your friends/family
  • doesn’t involve you in their life
  • wants to change you
  • wants you to change them: sees you as an anchor/savior
  • doesn’t apologize/doesn’t admit they are wrong
  • always right
  • thinks fighting spices things up
  • expects more than gives
  • dangerous/endangering
  • risk averse vs. always taking risks
  • judgmental
  • too jealous
  • too sarcastic
  • too stupid
  • shallow/superficial
  • doesn’t return what he/she expects/gets from you
  • cares too much about what others think
  • superstitious
  • too nosy

Filed Under: Inspiration and Motivation, Writing Tagged With: bad personality traits for fictional characters, personality trait ideas for fiction writers, writing fiction, writing realistic fiction

Recently Published, Pitched, Read & Watched: Updates for the Week

Posted on May 2, 2016 Written by Pinar Tarhan

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Me, hard at work at my favorite coffee shop.

This has been a busy few days. I’ve reevaluated my blogging goals, recovered from the latest bout of my capricious gastritis and collected three rejections. Since it was three rejections for three different stories, there’s a lot of hope on the horizon.

For one thing, I took a leap in trying to break into three publications I’ve not been published on before. I also went about discovering two great books, two interesting movies and got published on Write Naked.

Below are my notes on them. Read on and see if they might also catch your fancy.

(P.S. I used affiliate links in my post, so if you purchase from those, I make a little money at no extra cost to you.)

Non-fiction:

The Art of Creative Thinking by Rod Judkins, but I’ll be coming back to that book again and again. Stay tuned because I’ll be reviewing the book here soon.

I also loved and will keep with me for a long time:How to Do It All: The Revolutionary Plan to Create a Full, Meaningful Life — While Only Occasionally Wanting to Poke Your Eyes out with a Sharpie by Linda Formichelli. Again, the review is in the works.

Image via The Renegade Writer.
Image via The Renegade Writer.

I’m reading Better than Before by Gretchen Rubin and loving it.

Yes, if there is a fun, well-written and practical non-fiction book that covers creativity, productivity and time-management while keeping potential personality quirks in mind, I’m game.

Fiction: The Widow by Fiona Barton

The Widow, Fiona Barton

Wow, this book was dark and depressing. Sure, it was engaging, but I don’t want to keep it. I don’t want to revisit or reread.

Apparently there are comparisons to Gone Girl. I only watched the movie and read the screenplay, but I can tell you that Gone Girl is not that depressing. Maybe because it doesn’t involve child abuse, kidnapping and potential child murder.

The Widow tells the story of Jean, a woman who remains the center of media attention after her husband, suspected child abuser/kidnapper/killer is killed in an accident. Did she really know her husband? Was he really guilty? And was she a part of it?

While the book isn’t as gory as Gone Girl, it’s definitely darker, and it’s enough to put off reading certain thrillers for a while. So do I recommend it? You decide.

Recently Watched and Enjoyed: Mr. Right, Cube

I’ve watched two movies: one to study, one for absolute pleasure.

Cube: In the name of studying screenwriting

Cube movie poster
Cube poster via wikipedia.

Cube was for studying mystery/sci-fi plot as it is famous for its low-budget, as well as original and captivating plot. While it’s not too gory on the whole, it has a few scenes that are not for the faint-hearted.

Was the plot as amazing as I heard? Well, yes. However, the acting was uneven, and *spoilers*, if you want a solid reason/purpose for the cube, you are in for disappointment. But it’s worth your time if you know that going in. I had fun, but I prefer movies whose plots have better reasons than “it’s the way it is.” (More on Cube in later posts.)

Mr. Right starring Sam Rockwell and Anna Kendrick: For Fun

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Don’t be fooled by the name. Mr. Right is a usually hilarious and absurd romantic comedy, crime comedy and action comedy movie where a reformed hitman falls for a girl with issues, and together they form the perfect couple.

But of course she will have to deal with his “job,” and the men after him for different reasons. The hitman is Sam Rockwell, and the girl of his dreams is played by Anna Kendrick. If you love Rockwell like I do, it’s a must. His action/dancing scenes are my favorite, as well as most of his lines.

Of course given how many genres it’s tackling, it’s a bit uneven, illogical and strange. I loved it, but don’t be disappointed by wanting a straightforward romantic comedy or action comedy. Also, almost all characters are crazy.

You’ve been warned.

Recently Published:

Well, it’s not all rejections. I’m proud to say I’ve been published on one of my favorite blogs, Tara Lynne Groth’s Write Naked. Check out my tips on how not to make social media mistakes as a writer, and stay for other posts. It’s an invaluable resource for writers.

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That’s it. Please share this post if it inspired you to read, watch and/or pitch.

What have you watched, read, pitched and published this week?

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